Pretty ****** Off!!

Neoni said:
well... she stays every friday saturday, and we share the same bed they both know this, they even know we sleep together, they are ok with it, its not her dad, its her step dad.
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Doesn't sound like they're with it to me if she's not allowed this weekend.

Basically you're going to have to accept it though - not point ****ing and moaning about it as it's not going to change anything. In fact at most, you'll get his back up and he'll just get worse.
 
Neoni said:
we met through friends at a party. take a look around you if i were you, there is 15 year olds dating 26 years olds.
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Oh, so that makes it OK. thats a ****** up way of thinking.

Again, met at a party. Sounds to me like it some 19 year old kid trying to impress young kids with his age and 'life experiances' in order to get 'some'.
 
Do you know her step dad? Get her to ask you over for dinner or something, have an adult conversation with him and he will either realise you're a responsible adult who only wants the best for her, or think you're a weirdo who just wants an easy one.

Whichever is true.
 
zain said:
No, you're just saying if one daughter is a sl** it is ok for another daughter to be one.
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what? i dont understand.

there was no mention of anyone being sluttish. were very mature actually we dont mess about, its not fun and games.
 
Neoni said:
There is 15 year olds dating 26 years olds, teens with prams. not me and her.
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That is a clear breach of the (age/2)+7 rule!

But in all seriousness just because other peoples parents do different, doesn't really mean what you have said in this thread is her parents being 'mean' towards you.
 
Neoni said:
i cant appreciate it because his attitude is really ****ed up, its not just this i could list hundreds of stuff what hes done and said infront of me.

her actual blood mother tells her to ignore it, but whenever hes around she goes with it, like she was drunk last week and i told her i didnt agree with his attitude she said just let it fly over your head, she says it all the time.
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Don't let him get to you - parents have a way of doing such a thing and it's all part of the (what I call) "pre-independence" dating.

Take a step back for now but there will be more opportunities to take that step forward.

Don't get into his bad list, but don't let him take the biscuit either.

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Calder said:
Do you know her step dad? Get her to ask you over for dinner or something, have an adult conversation with him and he will either realise you're a responsible adult who only wants the best for her, or think you're a weirdo who just wants an easy one.

Whichever is true.
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he knows me very well, i asked if i could take her out for her birthday he said yes stay out til whatever time you like, look after her, were always out together and in her garden, ive been invited over to bbqs, when i have turned up everybody has known or seen me before and known that im a decent guy. i get on with them all.
 
My friend seems to have a thing for the younger ladies, he is 20 and has dated several 16 and 17 year olds.

When we have met them they are all really immature, and I have a 16 year old sister myself so know that they all have a lot of growing up to do.

The reason he dates them is because it's fairly easy. You only have to see them at weekends and they look up to you and are eager to please, its an easy lay.

Her step dad probably knows this and thinks you are only after one thing, regardless of your actual intentions. Unfortunatly since you are dating a child you have to follow the rules of her parents.
 
Fair enough she's not allowed round to yours on her own, probably her step-dad thinks it's too much responsibility, and fair enough to the phone calls - I wouldn't want people ringing my house that late if I had a family. But it's a shame about the night ou etc - you'd think that if you're known by her family then she'd be allowed..

I understand that you get lonely - I do all the time and I've a good few mates about - it's really hard to find motivation and occupy yourself when you're like that..

Just be pleasant to her step-dad even if you think he's a ****. That's probably the best way, and when he sees it's more than just a little thing then he'll relax.
 
Neoni said:
what? i dont understand.

there was no mention of anyone being sluttish. were very mature actually we dont mess about, its not fun and games.
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You showed the fact a 15 year old going to 26 year old boys parties is a way to justify the age gap, that = big no no!!!

I am not saying you are wrong being with her buddy, just saying that you have to understand the parents concern!


Go and chill for a bit mate, you may get more bad then good here :P
 
iamdjdz said:
Fair enough she's not allowed round to yours on her own, probably her step-dad thinks it's too much responsibility, and fair enough to the phone calls - I wouldn't want people ringing my house that late if I had a family. But it's a shame about the night ou etc - you'd think that if you're known by her family then she'd be allowed..

I understand that you get lonely - I do all the time and I've a good few mates about - it's really hard to find motivation and occupy yourself when you're like that..

Just be pleasant to her step-dad even if you think he's a ****. That's probably the best way, and when he sees it's more than just a little thing then he'll relax.
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no no her mobile its her mobile i cant ring :/ ive been out before and brought him food back and everything had a rate laugh with him at times, one of his best mates knows me from when i was like 14, and drumming with his other mates band.
 
Replicant said:
Well thats above the age of consent, a lot of girls these days see guys in there 20's etc, i'm sure she has a mobile anyways lol.
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So what? Does a father have to like it, allow it or facilitate it? His house, his rules. When you a big grown up you don't live with mummy and daddy do you...
 
M0T said:
The reason he dates them is because it's fairly easy. You only have to see them at weekends and they look up to you and are eager to please, its an easy lay.
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Thats the reason why I would give any guy who dated my sister a very hard time and wouldnt let me daughter date at that age.
 
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