Relationship disaster - help

Surfer said:
Can't do pics at this stage. If the relationship survives tonight then i'll try. She is about an 8. Very very slim waist and tbh a peach of an **** to utterly die for.


basically these are dealbreakers


  • No more hassling me about religion, she just has to accept and respect my own beliefs (or lack of) instead of trying to convert me.

  • Sex before marriage issue. Dealbreaker. I'm not saying she must shag me right now but tbh i dont even really believe in marriage so that might as well be no sex ever :eek:

  • More space, this is hard because we are kinda living together atm so she will treat us like uhh we are living together as a couple! Perhaps her moving out would be a good thing actually.
If she manages all these then maybe.... :)

What do you think?
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I think you two are utterly incompatible. In order to have a relationship, either or both of you will have to dramatically change views that are very important to you...and doing so will doom the relationship anyway.

End it now to minimise the damage, that's my advice.
 
ringo747 said:
What has being religious got to do with an individuals ability to have a personal relationship? Can't believe how narrow minded a statement you are making.
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You're joking, right?

The statement that you claim to be replying to(*) was that this woman probably won't have had many (if any) boyfriends because she's a particularly devout Christian.

A woman who is a devout follower of a religion that disapproves of any intimate relationships outside of marriage has probably had fewer boyfriends than most women who aren't. The religion she places such high priority on says that she shouldn't have any.

To call understanding that "narrow-minded" is nonsense. You're either a troll or very silly.



* I phrased it that way because I don't see any connection between the statement and your "reply" to it.
 
Never **** where you eat.

My flatmate this year was a rather fit 21 year old third year uni student. Also blonde, but not religious. May have got some the week I moved in. Then, after a couple of weeks of sex she found a boyfriend. Which I was ok with because she was **** in bed and I had found someone I liked more anyway.

Makes things awkward between us now, god knows what it's going to be like when I bring my new girlfriend over to stay =\
 
Shayper said:
Never **** where you eat.

My flatmate this year was a rather fit 21 year old third year uni student. Also blonde, but not religious. May have got some the week I moved in. Then, after a couple of weeks of sex she found a boyfriend. Which I was ok with because she was **** in bed and I had found someone I liked more anyway.

Makes things awkward between us now, god knows what it's going to be like when I bring my new girlfriend over to stay =\
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Dude you're screwed! You have two options: tell the gf you slept with the roommate and risk her being jealous that the roommate is more attractive than her and getting jealous or you can not tell her and have your balls cut off when she finds out...

kd
 
Last 'god' girl i dated, i ran for the hills. Sex before marriage was not an issue for her, but the constant Jesus nagging and trying to get me in church (born anglican, but not religous) was a dealbreaker.
 
I can imagine the OP in 20 years time with his kids on the sofa telling them how he met their mother. Hmmm, that could make a good sit com. I'm off to write it.
 
This is a simple fix...

"I'll go to church with you if you'll let me to anal"

HAHA

Just take your iPod to church.

****ing Christians, always pushing beliefs on everyone else, just like every other ****ing religion
 
I knew a girl (a cousin of a friend) who wanted her "first" to be her husband, so whenever she had sex with random guys it was always anal :D Shame I never met her
 
flibbage0 said:
They're allowed to do that?

I thought no sex before marriage meant no sex at all. :confused:
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She wasn't Christian, she was Muslim or some other asian extraction lol

I guess its a case of the rule is "virgin" but it doesn't say front or back lol, I'm guessing oral would be acceptable too
 
Am I the only one thinking that the OP is taking advantage when he shouldn't be?
The term 'love' is thrown around a lot these days without much meaning, is easily confused with physical attraction and is just re-enforced with the fact that your living together.
You've told her your leaving, your both clearly operating on two different wave lengths.
Be level headed and stop leading/allowing this girl to get physical. The more that happens, the more she'll get all Glenn Close on you.
 
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