Relationship disaster - help
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clearly you've never been with a ****!
***** are fine for a 1 night stand, but personally, having stolen my ladies virginity, it's kind of nice to be with a girl who hasn't been with anyone else, other than the fact you know she's not got any STD's, I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years, and we've only ever slept with eachother, because of that we know exactly what the other one likes and dislikes in the bedroom, basically, the sex is and always has been awesome.
Neither of us are overly religious (thankfully) although she's been to midnight mass once or twice (for some reason)
Neither of us are overly religious (thankfully) although she's been to midnight mass once or twice (for some reason)
Or so you think it's awesome. You have nothing to compare it too.
Why would I need to compare it to anything? why look anywhere else if I've got a good thing now?
I doubt you need to, but I'm just saying, you have no basis to know how awesome something can get, plus how would you know if ***** are good for one night stands if you've only ever slept with you missus.
I would agree, good fun with a wholesome girl is better in the long run, but I'd never give up those memories of out of this world nights with 9/10 *****.
To the OP.... I might consider the no sex before marriage thing, it seems in most of my friends relationships that it goes lots of sex before marriage, then every little (im not married)
Maybe it might work the opposite way round for religious nuts cause they are so gagging for it.
I would agree, good fun with a wholesome girl is better in the long run, but I'd never give up those memories of out of this world nights with 9/10 *****.
To the OP.... I might consider the no sex before marriage thing, it seems in most of my friends relationships that it goes lots of sex before marriage, then every little (im not married)
Maybe it might work the opposite way round for religious nuts cause they are so gagging for it.
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***** are good because it's nice to be able to look at skin when you go out round town lol, plus if I was single I would definitely go there lol
Maybe (from my point of view) ***** are good because they're something I have yet to experience I don't know, this is getting a little deep for me lol
Ahhh so after 8 years your curiosity is getting the better of you. You've had enough lovely wholesome food, and want a dirty takeaway.
lolDon't do it, its not worth it, they taste amazing but in the long run they'll give you liver disease.
haha (I love innuendos)Ahhh so after 8 years your curiosity is getting the better of you. You've had enough lovely wholesome food, and want a dirty takeaway.
Don't do it, its not worth it.
I never said that, I am perfectly satisfied with my relationship (we got engaged in November) I know as soon as we get our own place the naughtiness will never stop lol
I think personally you should take her out somewhere (pub or restaurant) & tell her your feelings & where she stands in your life. If she's not a complete fruitloop (& I have my suspicions on what you've said on here about her) She'll understand & you'll remain friends.
Or kick off for him leading her on and not saying something before hand...Think this can be the kinda situation where he tells her, she then doesnt leave him alone, stalks him everyday, becomes obsessive...
Good luck OP
10 days and she loves you? Get the hell out of there.
Love is not just words. Good that you lied to each other about being in love within 24 hours though.
Love is a feeling yes, but saying you love someone is just words, it annoys the hell out of me when people make a big deal about commitment and saying I love you every day of their lives, the fact I wake up next to my girlfriend every day, the fact I have been faithful since we got together, the fact I buy her stuff for christmas, and can see us having kids and a life together, that is what love is.
In any case we've been together for 8 years, so no, we weren't lying