relationship problems :/ whos in the wrong?

You're only 16. Still young. Forget about her. Don't be friends with her (as it will play with your mind)
Go out with some mates, enjoy yourself. When you're happy the right girl will be in front of you before you know it.
 
1. Sever contact.
2. Block her from bookface, msn and whatever else you crazy kids use to communicate with these days.
3. Find girl who actually wants to be with you and won't dick you about.
4. Be awesome.

There, [FnG]magnolia's 4 step plan to getting over girls who just are not worth it. And God I wish I'd known this when I was 16 :)
 
thanks for the replies. sorry about the punctuation i'm tired, as i said i haven't slept for two days.

looks like i will try and move on then

cheers
 
[FnG]magnolia;18685118 said:
1. Sever contact.
2. Block her from bookface, msn and whatever else you crazy kids use to communicate with these days.
3. Find girl who actually wants to be with you and won't dick you about.
4. Be awesome.
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Almost this.

3/4 I agree with but i don't see why you have to push her out of your life. You obviously like each other to an extent that you can be good friends. I say accept that she's with someone else but still keep her as a friend.
 
explicit4u said:
Almost this.

3/4 I agree with but i don't see why you have to push her out of your life. You obviously like each other to an extent that you can be good friends. I say accept that she's with someone else but still keep her as a friend.
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that is what i was going to say originally, i just hope we can stop arguing....
 
explicit4u said:
Almost this.

3/4 I agree with but i don't see why you have to push her out of your life. You obviously like each other to an extent that you can be good friends. I say accept that she's with someone else but still keep her as a friend.
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With all due respect, **** that.

Waste of time. Yes there is a friendship, but if the OP wanted it to go further it's not like he is going to forget it.

That's not to say you can't have female friends, just that sometimes its easier to move on. It'll cut open his wounds everytime she gets a new boyfriend and he has to put a smile on but secretly within thinking.....damn that should be me.
 
kenmare said:
With all due respect, **** that.

Waste of time. Yes there is a friendship, but if the OP wanted it to go further it's not like he is going to forget it.

That's not to say you can't have female friends, just that sometimes its easier to move on. It'll cut open his wounds everytime she gets a new boyfriend and he has to put a smile on but secretly within thinking.....damn that should be me.
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another one of my thoughts... :/
 
Mate, you've only known her for a short period of time and hardly know each other. Wait until you date someone for a year and a half, get a flat together and find out she cheated on you 3 weeks after moving in together. Then come back to me and tell me she's not being very nice!

<bitter>

Anyways, you need to talk to more girls around your area. You're clinging on to this one because you feel like you can't get another. That's really not the attitude to have. You'd be seriously surprised how easy it is to talk to girls, especially if you don't have the mindset of "right, I can't screw this up. How do I get her to be attracted to me". If you go in thinking "I just wanna meet new people and be friends" then you'll get more women in your life and you'll naturally attract one of them.
 
You won't stop arguing while you want to be with her and she doesn't want to be with you. Do you really want to stay friends and find out just how well she's getting on with this other guy, how great the sex is, how happy she is, how much she misses him when he isn't around? Really? Does that sound healthy to you? To be the emotional pillow for some girl who'd rather be with someone else?

Right now, the only way you can be friends with her if you have absolutely no interest in her romantically. This is why you sever until either (a) you don't care about her romantically in which case, go hog wild and be friends, or (b) you don't care about her romantically because you've met someone who wants to be with you.

Respect yourself and accept that she wants to be with another guy. It's no one's "fault" (as you put it in the OP), she just likes him more than she likes you. Deal with it, accept it and move on.

You will find someone who is awesome, I absolutely guarantee it. You probably don't believe me but it doesn't matter; it'll happen anyway. And that's the best bit about it :)
 
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