relationship problems :/ whos in the wrong?

^TANK^ · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:16

tom_e said:
And one day her boobs will reach her knees, I'd say you've dodged a bullet

benjo · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:20

Just cut all contact. You've been friend zoned, there's no going back.. especially over a long distance.

Morba · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:21

Hold on, did you see her at all after the holiday? If not them you were never anything more than a friend.
Get over it and have a fumble with the dirty bird in your year at school.

SoundEng · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:22

[FnG]magnolia;18685251 said:
It's no one's "fault" (as you put it in the OP), she just likes him more than she likes you. Deal with it, accept it and move on.

yes that sounds terrible i know, i did not mean it come across like that. but thanks for that, it really doesnt fee like it will though....but the amount of people who have told me that....

SoundEng · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:23

Morba said:
Hold on, did you see her at all after the holiday? If not them you were never anything more than a friend.
Get over it and have a fumble with the dirty bird in your year at school.

already done that.... did nothing for me tho :/

benjo · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:24

hellarda said:
already done that.... did nothing for me tho :/

You're 16, don't get stuck into a relationship now. You've got all of college, and possibly uni to go yet

orderoftheflame · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:26

hellarda said:
...were not going out...

...ended up doing stuff with a guy there (that apparently she has liked for a while but not told me)....

...she is now telling me that she doesnt want to be anything more than friends...

...and now shes getting annoyed with me because i cant accept that she just wants to be friends with me now and we've been arguing since monday and i havent slept since then

what do you think i should do? am in the wrong here?

You weren't going out with her, but you're arguing with her about her seeing other boy/man/adolescent male?

Leave her alone and get on with life?

Morba · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:26

Then you are a lost cause.
Hit the gym, gallon of milk a day and squat, deadlift and overhead press it out.

daelo · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:26

Whats the point of being friends with her if your never going to see her again and she lives two hours away... i sure as hell wouldnt meet a girl just to be friends who lived two hours away. Just dont see the point as soon as you meet another girl she will dissapear from your memories altogether due to the distance etc..

your only 16 don't worry about it in 4 years time when your 20 you'll think damn what was i thinking back then and surely you would have met lots of other girls in the meantime which would have occupied your mind.

Mucky_Pup · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:26

explicit4u said:
Almost this.

3/4 I agree with but i don't see why you have to push her out of your life. You obviously like each other to an extent that you can be good friends. I say accept that she's with someone else but still keep her as a friend.

I'd cut her out, simply for the fact that when her relationship with the other guy inevitably fails she'll come back and try it on with the OP because she know's how he feel's about her, and thus she'll have him eating out of her hand very easily.

lynchy6789 · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:29

Only 16, as the saying goes still plenty more fish in the sea. Move on and find someone else foreget being her friend she can't have it both ways.

[FnG]magnolia · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:30

Let's make this nice and easy, a foolproof, easy to follow process.

SEVER CONTACT AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE

That's it. That's all you have to do. Do this and come back in 3 months and tell us about this great girl you met

SoundEng · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:30

orderoftheflame said:
You weren't going out with her, but you're arguing with her about her seeing other men?

Leave her alone and get on with life?

'the only reason we weren't going out was the distance' yes we weren't going out per se, however we were treating each other as if we were. we talked for ages every night. i have seen her a few times since the summer, and i was meant to be seeing her next sunday.

we were treating eachother as if we were going out. everytime we were together we were out in town, we were acting as a couple.

HAz · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:32

when your a bit older and shes fat and had 2 kids you will look back and wonder what you saw in that fat flobber bloody.

[FnG]magnolia · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:32

hellarda said:
'the only reason we weren't going out was the distance' yes we weren't going out per se, however we were treating each other as if we were. we talked for ages every night. i have seen her a few times since the summer, and i was meant to be seeing her next sunday.

we were treating eachother as if we were going out. everytime we were together we were out in town, we were acting as a couple.

No, you were treating it as though you were going out. You. Not her.

Anyway, it doesn't matter, that's done and dusted. Move on, dude.

Mucky_Pup · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:33

Just cut her out mate, she's not worth it.

SoundEng · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:34

[FnG]magnolia;18685459 said:
No, you were treating it as though you were going out. You. Not her.

Anyway, it doesn't matter, that's done and dusted. Move on, dude.

well she was treating me as a bf more than i was treating her as a gf so.....

yeh ok cheers

MagicMalkin · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:35

Are you having a laugh?

Infam0us · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:44

Time to man up and move on

I would say get drunk and go out on the town but your only 16

tom_e · 16 Mar 2011 at 21:45

Infam0us said:
Time to man up and move on

I would say get drunk and go out on the town but your only 16

And that would stop him why? It's what parks and street corners are for