Well...
I got in to cycling with hybrid then bought my first ever carbon Ribble...
Somehow found a FB cycling group which now broke but managed to find few ppl through it...
There was mostly 3 of us....cycling in Kent over weekends...now I'm the only one left...
Other guys are from Essex - long story short, they were part of that FB group as well and I got to know them better via Kent guys.
Having a car was useful as I could pack bike in and drive to them and other times they will drive to London or get a train and we do Windsor ride or box hill or whatever...
Now I'm car less we will see how it will go..
Today we had 2 guys driving from Midlands - same FB group .
One of my best bike mates I've met in a cycling holidays . He's moved out from Kent - notninitial guy from Kent - so only see him occasionally..
I've signed up to local cycling club and joined them few times after I've lost Kent gang... And might start cycling again with them .
Few years back when I've found my mojo, I've been doing 30-50miles on my own on Sunday morning
Don't let the others pull you down.
There must be other groups around of friendly cyclists that actually cycle.
Where are you based ? Maybe close to me or my lot
We accept almost everyone