Second Life Ruined my Marriage!!..

tried slaping your wang on her face while she was on the comp ?

lol soz i had to say wang somewhere this just seemed the best thread to say it :p

But same with me i could be glued to the computer but if my gf tells me she wants to go out or something BANG im straight off that computer in a flash. Sometimes i might even get dressed :p
 
KNiVES said:
The 'but sex over the internet is serious business' brigade will be all over you like a rash in a minute.
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KNiVES said:
The 'but sex over the internet is serious business' brigade will be all over you like a rash in a minute.
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Just out of interest, would you hold the same opinion if it was over the phone?

How about if it was your wife/gf who was having virtual sex with someone, and then pleasuring themselves afterwards?

Edit@LordSplodge: Do they come as a set, or do I have to order them seperately? =P
 
Hedge said:
You tried taking her out for meals or anything when you get in from work?

maybe do something to drag her off the computer and show more interest in you?

i spent ages on the pc.. far too long, but my lass could always drag me off if she was in her sussies!
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Yep.. I've tried: Food.. TV.. Cinema.. The Cats.. Even ME (Which is a bit desperate in our marital circumstances!)...

Nowt.. She won't even answer the flippin phone when it rings.. even though its within arms reach in the study for her.. and in a completely different room from 'My' Bedroom!...

I'm just thinking Monday, when she's back at work'll be a bit of a strain for her if she has to be away from him!!...

If she throws a sickie I'll have to inform her boss!... (thats how annoyed/desperate I am now!).. I know I'll not get her back!, but She can't rot in cyberspace!... its like a bad Red Dwarf parody... Better than Better than Life!!..

Heres how sad its got within the last hour!... She's actually signed up for the Full subscription bit!... 'You can earn Money and doo loads more things'... is £6quid a month FFS!!!...

I'm spending the weekend at my Parents... even though I have to sleep on the floor, its still much more comfortable than at home!!...
 
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Simian said:
Yep.. I've tried: Food.. TV.. Cinema.. The Cats.. Even ME (Which is a bit desperate in our marital circumstances!)...

Nowt.. She won't even answer the flippin phone when it rings.. even though its within arms reach in the study for her.. and in a completely different room from 'My' Bedroom!...

I'm just thinking Monday, when she's back at work'll be a bit of a strain for her if she has to be away from him!!...

If she throws a sickie I'll have to inform her boss!... (thats how annoyed/desperate I am now!).. I know I'll not get her back!, but She can't rot in cyberspace!... its like a bad Red Dwarf parody... Better than Better than Life!!..

Heres how sad its got within the last hour!... She's actually signed up for the Full subscription bit!... 'You can earn Money and doo loads more things'... is £6quid a month FFS!!!...

I'm spending the weekend at my Parents... even though I have to sleep on the floor, its still much more comfortable than at home!!...
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Don't do this... go out and bring a girl home, have lots of loud sex =)
 
Ask her if you are allowed to start dating other women.

then sign yourself up for a dating site.
 
Hedge said:
Ask her if you are allowed to start dating other women.

then sign yourself up for a dating site.
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they've split up... why is it her business, they're effectively housemates, and you wouldn't ask your housemates if you were allowed to start dating =P
 
the "pumping" you mean :p sorry im acting childish now love that word i plan to use it a lot more :D

Did she actually contact this guy ie over phone or something ?
 
Simian said:
What??... The Dancing, and the Cuddling, and the KISSING, AND THE HUMPING!!!... :mad:

Yrrp!.. :(
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i havent read the whole thread and can only presume shenanigans by you (the op), if not then i suggest you take the game, break the computer and get her back to reality. then you might have a chance of sorting your life out.

or is your part being played in the game as well:confused::eek:
 
Haggisman said:
Edit@LordSplodge: Do they come as a set, or do I have to order them seperately? =P
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You need to purchase all four, although by OCUK standards 2 out of the 4 are fat! :D INTERNET IT'S SERIOUS!

Simian said:
Yep.. I've tried: Food.. TV.. Cinema.. The Cats.. Even ME (Which is a bit desperate in our marital circumstances!)...

I'm spending the weekend at my Parents... even though I have to sleep on the floor, its still much more comfortable than at home!!...
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OK if this isn't some kind of wind up then you have a choice to make and neither is easy.

First choice: Stop her from going online, preferably gradually but if you have to make her go cold turkey to save you marriage then so be it. She has a serious addiction in the same way that heroin, nicotine and sex can be. Once you have got her attention get you both to relate.

Second choice: Move out and file for divorce and even though it may be the hardest thing you do make sure you protect your assets.

Nobody said life was always a bed of roses, did they? :(
 
got to say dont see the prob with this, aint like shes having real sex which would hurt a damn site more. u wanna loosen up abit and maybe join in on the experience who knows the thrill might even get her back in ya bed
 
Haggisman said:
Just out of interest, would you hold the same opinion if it was over the phone?

How about if it was your wife/gf who was having virtual sex with someone, and then pleasuring themselves afterwards?

Edit@LordSplodge: Do they come as a set, or do I have to order them seperately? =P
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Cybersex is hardly the same as phonesex, give me a break. There is a huge detachment between hearing somebody's voice and jerking it off to some pixellated person over the internet. Two years ago, my then-girlfriend would have a laugh with me about the myriad of over-zealous cybering 12 year olds on World of Warcraft. It's really not a big deal. That guy on Second Life could well be a 12 year old KNiVES; I was exactly the same in AOL chatrooms potentially wooing 40 year olds whose husbands are having a crisis about and expressing it on forums over the internet.

Please think about just how ridiculous the entire thing is. And remember: it could be YOUR kid doing a better job over a game than poor Simian is in real life :p
 
Just split up as soon as possible and sell the house, even at a loss, you are wasting too much time with her, plenty of women out there looking for a relationship and a home. Does she work?
 
cheets64 said:
Just split up as soon as possible and sell the house, even at a loss, you are wasting too much time with her, plenty of women out there looking for a relationship and a home. Does she work?
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Jesus Christ, a woman spending time on a computer doing strange things with a boy and you're saying sell the house at a loss and flee? Bit drastic don't you think?
 
KNiVES said:
Cybersex is hardly the same as phonesex, give me a break. There is a huge detachment between hearing somebody's voice and jerking it off to some pixellated person over the internet.
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Not really, in neither case is there any actual physical interaction

KNiVES said:
Two years ago, my then-girlfriend would have a laugh with me about the myriad of over-zealous cybering 12 year olds on World of Warcraft. It's really not a big deal. That guy on Second Life could well be a 12 year old KNiVES; I was exactly the same in AOL chatrooms potentially wooing 40 year olds whose husbands are having a crisis about and expressing it on forums over the internet.

Please think about just how ridiculous the entire thing is. And remember: it could be YOUR kid doing a better job over a game than poor Simian is in real life :p
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Thanks for that information, not really what I asked though was it? However you're welcome to avoid my question if you feel answering it would force you to go back on what you've been so vehemently stating ;)

I also highly doubt it's my kid doing anything, since I don't actually have any kids (that I know of :D)
 
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