I know what you mean.It still is chaos into Eau Rouge. Everyone wants to be a hero, win the race on the 1st lap and have no idea of what awareness of other cars means. More often than not I don't bother with qually when doing public lobbies and start near the back and see what happens.
I'm usually doing league enduros with team mates anyway and the odd bit of LFM. Public lobbies are for when we want a laugh and have nothing better to do
I've missed qualy & started at the back a couple of times and been leading after the 1st lap. Occasionally I even start from the pit lane to miss the Muppets. It's usually pretty obvious who is going to stack it on the 1st lap and I just let them go.
At least in LFM the chat is banned during sessions