No-one said it happens in real life, at least I have not experienced this phenomenon. It is within the "programmes" which are masquerading as Star Trek who's nauseating identity based politics and extreme left wing ideals make me tune out.
Star Trek is not about story telling any more, it's about "The Message". AK said this in an interview.
It isn't in reference to you, it was in reference to the guy after you who added that it was modern life full stop.
Though your reaction is very telling.