*** The 2010 Gym Rats Thread ***

Well after 2 years training on and off I think I've had enough of weight training. The diet, the endless doms, the tiredness, and the fact I'm getting nowhere fast.

Maybe It is a young mans game at 35 I'm struggling most work outs with lack of motivation and the fact I suffer from depression and anxiety which makes going heavy really hard, but that's hard for others to understand.

I've asked for help on these forums and most of my posts have been ignored and the pictures I've posted been ripped.

I have made gains but at the price of feeling like **** most days, is that just me or is that normal?

Well I've 250kg of weight if anyone wants them.

rant over and ignore at your pleasure.

Drop me a mail if you want to chat - I'm sorry you feel you haven't been supported. IF you feel you'd rather chat about it in private I'm happy to give you my time.

Email in trust. :)
 
working out when short on time

Does this sound anygood as I have trouble fitting in my old routine so thought this might be ok

monday - 5 sets DB Incline Bench + 3 sets skull crushers
tuesday - pullups 30 reps , 5 sets deadlifts, 3 sets BB curls
weds - 5 sets DB shoulder press or Military press + 3 sets lateral raises
thurs - 3 sets Hack squats, 3 sets sldl - situps
 
Thanks Freefaller I think I was maybe taking my frustration out on the forum to be honest, maybe most of my posts seem a load of crap anyway or maybe I'm not getting involved as such

I'll need to get back to this discussion tomorrow. It's just frustrating wanting something so much and I just seem to be failing at it, that sound sad doesn't it? :(
 
We all get frustrated at times. I've close to tossing in the towel too, I then give it a break and then relax, reflect, do some introspective discussion and get back to it with a different goal.

35 is not too late (you're not that much older than me!) you just need to realise that results might not happen as quick as a 21 year old - sucks, but that's the way it is.

Have a glass of wine, chill, and either drop me a mail, or let's discuss where you're struggling and see what we can do for you. :)
 
I'll need to get back to this discussion tomorrow. It's just frustrating wanting something so much and I just seem to be failing at it, that sound sad doesn't it? :(

Not at all, most of us here know just how hard it is to get progress in this game. Your not alone in feeling like your swimming against the current, sometimes its a good idea to take a few weeks or a month or 2 off and come back to it with a fresh set of eyes ready to go again
 
Aye, as others have said it can be very frustrating at times. Have a word with FF and see what you can come up with.

Feel free to CC me into your e-mails if you want a second opinion or some other ideas. Not that FF ideas/opinions are no good of course! :p

OT:

Did some shrugs and some rear flys with resistance bands today. They're a bit brutal!:eek:
 
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E-Z Preacher curls, i got shown these by a bloke at the gym today as an alternative to doing E-Z bicep curls. So from what i understand is the difference is Preacher curls isolate just your biceps making all the work go through them??
So what am i better off doing, preacher curls or bicep curls, or maybe even both. I have a new program made by a right pain pervert about every 6 weeks and the only preacher curls he's made me do was with dumbells, which is better?

PS cheers benny and freefaller for diet advice my weight has gone up now for the last 3 months, aswell as my weights :)
 
Good to hear :)

Superset your arms, no one likes training them, and supersetting them gets a lot of out of them in a short space of time and works very well IMO. Arms like legs like a bit of volume.
 
I've switched to straight bar work for arms. As you get more forearm recruitment, you get more bicep recruitment too. Plus the bodys synergistic tendancies, forearms needs stimulation too.

Precher curls shift the highest point of tension in the lift. A standing curl the top half is usually the hardest, where as a preacher the bottom half is the hardest.

'Spider Curls' not sure if this the correct name for them, use a preacher bench, but backwards. So put your chest on the pad and have your arms hang down where you would sit. So the backs of your arms are vertical, these are really good at the top of the rep/contraction I've found.

I used to superset bi's and tri's on my shoulder day (tripple superset actually :eek:), also used to hit them seperately on my chest and back days.

Using a lower volume : heavier load approach at the moment & also shocking with some dropsets.

Ascending pyramids I quite like too for alternating DB curl.
 
I used to do 3 tripple supersets.

Standing BB or EZ curl straight into Lying EZ/BB Tricep extension (pick a light weight you could get around 15 reps with and do 8-10 for each part of the superset, repeat twice more with no rest. Rest then do that whole thing once or twice more.

I wouldn't do this very regulary if I were you but if you want pain, that will deliver it! Thats what pump really feels like!
 
I do 2 exercises for biceps and 2 for triceps on a friday if at all. It works pretty well to be honest (arms been stroked for the last 2 hours at the club ahah)
 
Thanks Freefaller I think I was maybe taking my frustration out on the forum to be honest, maybe most of my posts seem a load of crap anyway or maybe I'm not getting involved as such

I'll need to get back to this discussion tomorrow. It's just frustrating wanting something so much and I just seem to be failing at it, that sound sad doesn't it? :(

*Group hug* :D

I'd offer advice but I don't feel I'm very qualified to do so! Modesty aside I have worked moderately over the past 3 years, not as hard as I know I'd like to but job gets in my way a lot so I feel there are other guys here with a much greater plethora of knowledge for you. Ask away though, this thread is busy so I think sometimes posts get missed and fall off the last page quite quickly.

Ok, one piece of advice: DO NOT GIVE UP! You WILL regret doing so :)
 
Thanks captain, I'll not be giving up just yet. I've just downloaded Wendlers 5 3 1 ebook going to give that a go.
 
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