Cheers for the advice Freefaller. That looks like a good gym you go to, I just go to a rubbish chain gym called Virgin Active, its the Health Centre in leeds at kirkstall.
Its rubbish because the DB's only go upto 40kg, and I can bench more then that so 40kg is rubbish when I want to use DB's instead of bars for a change.
And also the one thing that really bugs me is the staff and members have no gym etiquette, so like for example, when am squatting, at times the staff have picked up weight beneath me and I'm like WTF! just so stupid! And the staff at my gym are like these tiny little guys, you know what I mean, and I feel like seriously going ape s*** at them but I don't.
I think I need to find a hardcore gym where I can be pushed, but at my gym I'm at top of the food chain, whereas I know if I go to a proper hardcore gym they'll all be on steroids and they'll all prob look 10x bigger and better then me and I'll be back at the bottom of the crop, but I think its what I need coz people say it motivates you more.
Also, in 3 years of going to the gym, I have never asked anyone for help or advice, at the gym, because I look around, and I just see hopeless people on their mobile phones and messing about, or just look tiny compared to me and no good bodies, and also groups of 6 guys taking it in turn to use one machine for like 25 mins...and so I think what's the point.
So everything upto now I've learnt from watching youtube videos with Ronnie Coleman and other bodybuilders and also Greg Plitt who you prob haven't heard of but I'm doing his workout routine at the moment, he's number one fitness model in America and I paid access to his site which is like £7 a month or something like that and his routine is really good.
I think if anyone did a workout with me for an hour at full intensity they'd know my routine was perfect. I used to have weak points in my routine a year ago, but just from reading online and watching videos I've learnt so much. There's only a couple of other guys in my gym that seem to know what they're doing, everyone else is just their to keep fit and social aspect lol.
I take it really seriously and I feel like I'm addicted to the gym, I look forward to going everyday, I cant wait to get into the gym. This might sound strange but I didn't realise how many other people felt the same way as me until I started reading forum post on here and also on bodybuilding.com, it's good to know I'm not the only gym freak on OCUK lol.
EDIT: Also, I am not one of those people that go to gym and moan that I have to do legs or anything like that, I have done legs since I first started because I read that legs are important for the rest of the body to develop and my legs are my best assets, I believe I have the biggest and bestest legs in my gym!!! haha but seriously, for me, shoulders, legs, back, chest, arms, I look forward to each one, each workout, each exercise, there's nothing in my head going "oh I don't want to do this"....I say this because so many people in the gym moan about doing legs, but I always felt legs was my hardest thing so I just made it my favourite day and made it my strong point and thats how I overcome all that sort of attitude. I like not being able to walk the next day haha