How are you guys increasing strength without a spotter? On thinks like bench press I really struggle if I do not have a spotter
perhaps slower than you would with a dedicated spotter.
but I move up a weight when I feel comfortable on the current weight, so in my case once I'd managed 2 sets of 5 reps of 36kg dumbells flat bench, I felt comfortable to move up to 38s today.
I tend to - first instance of a new weight just ask a nearby gym member just to spot me - just incase.
I did nearly (not a new weight) fall off the flippin bench last week though - I rocked backwards onto the bench with the weights - but I wasn't quite straight and one of the weights started dragging me off the bench