Hi mate I have no doubt that you're right. Ex-mil people do tend to be disciplined and focused. If only the mil wasn't, at the end of the day, concerned with killing people. As a strict pacifist, I can't join the forces.
But if there was a non-killing version of the military I'd probably sign up tomorrow I know not every role is a combat role but at the end of the day they all serve to support the combat roles.
P.S. Do they really take 34 year olds? I always had the forces down as a young man's game. Much like footballers, by the time they get to 35 they're either officers or approaching retirement, no? Or is that just the army?
I think that you are one of those guys who always has an excuse for why they can't do anything.