The disappearance of Nicola Bulley

The information was about to be released by someone else for a story, apparently. The police decided to get out in front of it with the family's permission, and as a result they've taken the flack for it instead.

The Sun had gone through her friends list and visited all of them for dirt. They even tracked down all her old school friends in Essex some of whom said they had not seen her in over 30 years
 
The police decided to get out in front of it with the family's permission, and as a result they've taken the flack for it instead.
reputable news sources had acknowledged family gave permission, exonerating the police

sky isn't one of them - their star witness ex-detective , was she one of those who resigned before gross misconduct investigation, was too stupid to realise/hypothesise that.
 
Wrong for so many suicides.
They can be the most logical people before doing it and plan it over days.
Yes obviously some can just do it.

Ok,you got a link for that data? If someone has paranoid delusions from mental health for example they aren't logical at all when they attempt suicide!
 
Ok,you got a link for that data? If someone has paranoid delusions from mental health for example they aren't logical at all when they attempt suicide!

A common sign of spotting someone suicidal is noticing they are 'getting their affairs in order', not everyone just decides to suddenly jump off a bridge on their way to get a Tesco meal deal.
 
A common sign of spotting someone suicidal is noticing they are 'getting their affairs in order', not everyone just decides to suddenly jump off a bridge on their way to get a Tesco meal deal.
Yes,people who are able to plan the suicide out.
 
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Hang on, you are saying that someone planning to take their life is "in their right mind"?
No I'm not I'm saying to your post about getting plans in order! Do you have experience of mental health connected with suicides,or just giving your opinion??
 
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No I'm not I'm saying to your post about getting plans in order! Do you have experience of mental health connected with suicides,or just giving your opinion??

Oh is this where you want me to tell an internet stranger about how I've lost two family members and a close friend to suicide, has to be something quantifiable to be valid right? Unless you're a Dr (I am not) then your experience is worth as much as mine.
I still don't actually understand what you're getting at either, what are these stats you require exactly? Considering the subject, might be quite hard to ascertain. That's a genuine question btw, I went back a few pages to see if I was missing some context.
 
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Oh is this where you want me to tell an internet stranger about how I've lost two family members and a close friend to suicide, has to be something quantifiable to be valid right? Unless you're a Dr (I am not) then your experience is worth as much as mine.
I still don't actually understand what you're getting at either, what are these stats you require exactly? Considering the subject, might be quite hard to ascertain.

Yes I have first hand experience of suicide too unfortunately. I know a lot about mental health and suicides. Sorry to hear about yours
And the majority in my experience hasn't been them 'getting their affairs in order' . In fact with delusions which has included paranoia they weren't in their right mind even to get their house in order as you say

You or i can't put into a box what or how or whether they planned there suicide there are too many factors.This lady might have had delusions, I have no idea
 
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Yes I have first hand experience of suicide too unfortunately. I know a lot about mental health and suicides. Sorry to hear about yours
And the majority in my experience hasn't been them 'getting their affairs in order' . In fact with delusions which has included paranoia and weren't in their right mind even to get their house in order as you say

You or i can't do put into a box what or how or whether they planned there suicide there are too many factors.

Honestly I was hoping you didn't have any experience of it because if you have you know how bad is.
One of them was drug related but also he was severely depressed. Decided to jump off the Clifton suspension bridge in Bristol.
I still feel I've missed some vital context to this so I'll re-read tomorrow to see where I went wrong because I'm still lost.
 
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Honestly I was hoping you didn't have any experience of it because if you have you know how bad is.
One of them was drug related but also he was severely depressed. Dedicated to jump off the Clifton suspension bridge in Bristol.
I still feel I've missed some vital context to this so I'll re-read tomorrow to see where I went wrong because I'm still lost.
Ok mate:(. If amything has been misunderstood no harm meant.
 
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Ok mate:(. If amything has been misunderstood no harm meant.

Same, and I think I've caught up now!
You are wanting (if possible) some evidence that a significant proportion of suicides are the planned out type (sorting wills, finances etc before) rather than the ones that happen as a result of various mental health conditions where the person is not capable of doing that.
 
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