The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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If you still like the thought of someone 5 seconds after step 2 it's worth pursuing, otherwise no.
Exactly!
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Unfortunately that's a rarity so onwards to step 3
This so has to become a flowchart meme... Might shop it up later!
Well, meeting up with a girl I met Saturday night. We had a few drunken smooches, danced a lot and had a great laugh. I'm driving so I can't get a dose of dutch courage.
Problem with me though is I never know how to play it. Do you go in for the the kiss and hug or play it cool ? The talking and meeting bits I'm fine with, just the other things.
Wish me luck.
Problem with me though is I never know how to play it. Do you go in for the the kiss and hug or play it cool ? The talking and meeting bits I'm fine with, just the other things.
Wish me luck.
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^^Good luck...kiss her. Don't end up in the 'friend zone', that was my fear if I kept seeing this girl and nothing happened.
So, it seems from my really dark posts on here a few weeks ago I am finally moving on (I say finally, I really didn't plan to move on this quickly i.e. 4 weeks to the day!)
Started meeting up with a lovely girl from work (same age, same stage in life and we both have a huge amount in common...plus she is stunning, exactly my type
!)
As of last Sunday - just before F1 actually, I was like, I can't sit next to her through the whole race deciding whether or not to kiss her, so I just did it). Ended up staying the night
Has been really great though, she has been leading a lot of this which is a lovely change.
So, it seems from my really dark posts on here a few weeks ago I am finally moving on (I say finally, I really didn't plan to move on this quickly i.e. 4 weeks to the day!)
Started meeting up with a lovely girl from work (same age, same stage in life and we both have a huge amount in common...plus she is stunning, exactly my type
!)As of last Sunday - just before F1 actually, I was like, I can't sit next to her through the whole race deciding whether or not to kiss her, so I just did it). Ended up staying the night
Has been really great though, she has been leading a lot of this which is a lovely change.
Be cool, but not too cool. If she's into you, it will happen.
So, it seems from my really dark posts on here a few weeks ago I am finally moving on (I say finally, I really didn't plan to move on this quickly i.e. 4 weeks to the day!)
Started meeting up with a lovely girl from work (same age, same stage in life and we both have a huge amount in common...plus she is stunning, exactly my type
As of last Sunday - just before F1 actually, I was like, I can't sit next to her through the whole race deciding whether or not to kiss her, so I just did it). Ended up staying the night
Has been really great though, she has been leading a lot of this which is a lovely change.
A fit girl who watches F1? I'd say get your claws into that one.
So I think I've figured out where I've been going wrong. I think I've been batting way above my average somehow (I am that charming, clearly), and I think, I just want someone as plain, boring, introverted, a bit weird, quiet, just like me. Everyone I've been with has been way more fun and 'normal' than me, as weird/sad as that sounds. So essentially I'm patting myself on the back while saying ok that's enough now...