You are basically finding out what EliteDangerousDullness is all about I'm afraid. I am an early alpha backer and I really wanted Elite to match what the devs promised but it clearly hasn't. In fact they are now my officially least trusted developer. When they dropped the promised SP mode I tried and failed to get a refund. I tested the grind in alpha and beta for almost a year in the vain hope that someday it would have a decent immersive SP experience. That the USS and mind numbing star system shuffle were just place holders. I deluded myself into thinking it will all come good when the real game is released but the grind just got worse and worse.
I come back now and again in some vain hope it gotten better, a few hours in I can't take the grind anymore. I already have a day job I need to grind, no need to do it in my spare time.![]()
I am sorry to say that you are unlikely to ever see it any different, all games are a grind, some we enjoy, others we see the grind way too much to do so. Each to their own and all that, I hope one day you log in and find it different but I doubt it.