Soya... I have been meaning to get into this once and for all. I need your input - whats the best way to start learning how to fly in FSX? Should I just do the tutorials? Any tips for a complete novice? I just have FSX and the acceleration pack + Saitek X-52 joystick.
Pretty much what Katana mentioned, start simple, keep it simple until you feel you are ready to progress. It is probably best to start with as few addons as possible, or at least aircraft addons, scenery addons would make it look nicer if you want to do so (some excellent freeware from NL2000 & Blue Sky Scenery plus many others, plus much payware airports etc) but again, you can always worry about making it look nicer later on. Missions/tutorials that are supplied are definitely worth going through which will also allow you the chance to calibrate your joystick to your liking, as Katana said, best to keep it to small movements so keep your sensitivity high in order to do so. Also remember, the larger the aircraft the slower and the more sluggish the response hence why people often over compensate on the controls when it comes to flying larger aircraft, so best to start with smaller craft.
Once thing I can say, even with just default FSX, it is easy to get a little lost and forget which procedures to follow or which order they need to go into. It will take time and like so many things, repetition, repetition and even more repetition until it becomes habit. One of the reasons I love Flight Sim that you can enjoy it for many reasons and get into many different aspects of flying. Due to the complexities of flying an aircraft (the bigger or the more complex an aircraft is, the harder it becomes to fly) and the ability to set the realism level within the sim, you can slowly turn from a casual stick flyer to a 'as real as it gets' Captain of a modern Jet airliner/military flyer/helicopter pilot etc. Any complex sim is more like an investment in both hardware/software and most importantly, time. You may of course never actually fly an actual aircraft but the point is, you will have covered at least the very basics and probably much more in time. So, at least to me, not only are you getting some (or lots) of enjoyment out of sim flying, you are also always learning something new on your way which makes simming (not just flight simming, as I recently started doing a fair bit of TS2012 which is really enjoyable too) which makes it stand out from normal gaming.