@Alexrose1uk thank you very much for that. Though with the same setup, monitor and playing a bit of everything, I'm starting to wonder if I'M your wife! Impressive uplifts in the benchmarks, far higher than I was expecting.
Getting a couple of NVME drives first and reinstalling windows to see what that gains me, but the 7800x3d in particular is tempting, will probably do that before looking at a 7900xt. Just a shame that I'd need to change motherboard too, starts getting expensive.
I'm leaving the RGB lights off, mind!
You're welcome, going less flashy and RGB will no doubt save you some cash too!
The ONLY tweaking the graphics card has got, is it's been allowed the full +15% power limit, but honestly, I'm pretty sure given how cool and quiet its running with that monstrous nitro cooler, that it'd potentially have overclock and undervolt headroom if one day she lets me tinker, but as its HER build not mine, stability and lack of hassle was king!
As I got the 7900XT second hand, the full build, including fancy RGB etc cost less than £2K, which given its in the top x% of gaming PCs right now and it's pretty impressive 3dmark scores, I was pretty happy with.
We ended up going with 64GB of RAM not because she needs it now, because
A) Dual Rank CAN improve performance slightly in some cases
B) The kit was well rated to run with no hassles on Ryzen, as it's only 2 DIMMs (32GB per DIMM) and Ryzen friendly Hynix DDR5 modules, whilst still being 6000 CL30
C) The idea with this upgrade was even if she throws a graphics card upgrade at it down the line, the system itself is still extremely potent and shouldn't really hold her back, and AM5 should get another line or two of processors anywhere if she DID want more.
D) More RAM capacity never hurt anybody, even if big chunks of it aren't being used by her active programmes, Windows has as much memory as it wants to play with, without having to offload, and should be good for a few more years, as memory usage always goes up over time.
Much as I've never been a fan of the term 'future proofing' the whole concept here was really putting the base specification of the system in such a place, she could happily stick a new card in few years, and the PC itself will still be more than capable enough, as the RAM, Processor etc are all high end, and even next generation will still be comfortably well above middle of the road; as they are WAY ahead of current consoles. There are already games pushing well above 20GB in some circumstances, so it's not exactly a stretch to suggest that SOMETHING will breach 32GB sooner or later, and this way we just don't have to worry, no matter how much she leaves open in the background - again, minimum hassle.