I dont have kids.I justified it as the main reason for actually being alive.
I could die tomorrow and everything else I’ve done could be deemed as pointless.
99% sure i wont have them in future.
Now i used to think like you when i was young, on a ultra basic animal level, then yes. Procreation reproduction is the only goal of life.
This was probably true up until the 20th centaury where medicine and standards of living have shot up.
No longer do you need to sire 12 kids for a chance for 1 or 2 to not die by the age of 6. (over generalisation)
I dont even see the point of adding another 1 or 2 genetic offspring of me and my soon to be wife.
When i die, ill be dead. Nothing will matter kids or not.
Human race can easily cope without my genes, some council estate bint with 6 kids from 6 dags is doing more for the gene pool than me.