The Rise of Lonely Single Straight Men

throwaway4372 said:
I mean both emotionally and physically. Emotionally I actually think sex is bad because it messes with your head, I don't want my head messed with. Physically, I think I'm doing it right because the women have always enjoyed it, and there's only so many ways to skin a cat, I just think the physical sensation isn't that strong. Could be a circumcised vs not circumcised thing, no way to prove it. Condom makes a huge diff, it's borderline pointless with one on.

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Probably worth elaborating on condoms. As a teenager I always assumed that normal penis = normal condom, with extra large reserved for extra large penis or showing off somehow. So initially I used normal condoms. Over time I learned that they're just way too tight, and the extra large condoms are actually for normal penis and the normal condoms are for small penis. A condom that's too tight defo impedes stimulation. So if you've never tried extra large give it a go.
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Member's market (excuse the pun) about to see thowaway4372 put his slaughter of XL condoms up for offer....Good sales pitch by the way.
 
throwaway4372 said:
Inevitable tbh. It's a well-crafted thread to get various groups rowing with each other, mgtow/incel/feminist/redpill all have strong opinions.

Edit: Then there's the average forum user who stumbles in, unaware of any of that, lol.
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Disagree, you started talking about your junk whilst abusing the report function.
 
Maccy said:
Disagree, you started talking about your junk whilst abusing the report function.
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I didn't choose that, someone asked, it furthered the conversation.
The stuff I reported was trolling - seems to me like you can't correctly identify trolling in this topic, and I don't mean that as criticism, there's no reason why you would unless you've looked into these communities.
 
throwaway4372 said:
I didn't choose that, someone asked, it furthered the conversation.
The stuff I reported was trolling - seems to me like you can't correctly identify trolling in this topic, and I don't mean that as criticism, there's no reason why you would unless you've looked into these communities.
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Nobody asked you the size of your junk, give over.

And leave the moderating to us thanks. I'd say the comments that were reported were just furthering the conversation...
 
Trying to drag us away from talking about junk towards the original post...I think modern men have a tough time. Maybe not as tough as modern women but definitely tougher than many people assume.
Women have been told they can be whatever they want to be, if you want to be a stay at home mom that's fine, if you want to be a top business lady then you can find support to do that (it's probably still not easy). But modern men have it tough, we're expected to be good cooks, good DIYers, interesting storytellers, good prospective fathers, interesting, funny, well travelled and have a good career, car, home. That's without getting into the conflicting expectations about being strong and stoic but yet emotionally open, traditional breadwinners but also good fathers etc etc.
My personal view is that men want the same thing as they do 50 years ago (which is a pretty wife that's easy to live with) but women's expectations have gone up for a variety of reasons. What that's done is caused a subset of men to be available but disheartened/frustrated/keep score/antagonistic (which is not attractive on dates), another subset to just check out completely and realise you can actually have a pretty good life without getting married or having kids leaving 100% of women fighting over who's left and not shacked up.

I'd also tag on that there's probably also a big rise of very happy single men, and unhappy lonely women. I've had a few conversations with single women a little older than my recently and what's quite clear is that they want a man, but what they want that man to do or be is not quite clear because traditional gender roles are out of the window.
 
cfletch said:
Trying to drag us away from talking about junk towards the original post...I think modern men have a tough time. Maybe not as tough as modern women but definitely tougher than many people assume.
Women have been told they can be whatever they want to be, if you want to be a stay at home mom that's fine, if you want to be a top business lady then you can find support to do that (it's probably still not easy). But modern men have it tough, we're expected to be good cooks, good DIYers, interesting storytellers, good prospective fathers, interesting, funny, well travelled and have a good career, car, home. That's without getting into the conflicting expectations about being strong and stoic but yet emotionally open, traditional breadwinners but also good fathers etc etc.
My personal view is that men want the same thing as they do 50 years ago (which is a pretty wife that's easy to live with) but women's expectations have gone up for a variety of reasons. What that's done is caused a subset of men to be available but disheartened/frustrated/keep score/antagonistic (which is not attractive on dates), another subset to just check out completely and realise you can actually have a pretty good life without getting married or having kids leaving 100% of women fighting over who's left and not shacked up.

I'd also tag on that there's probably also a big rise of very happy single men, and unhappy lonely women. I've had a few conversations with single women a little older than my recently and what's quite clear is that they want a man, but what they want that man to do or be is not quite clear because traditional gender roles are out of the window.
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Whilst your views are well presented and interesting, in a thread such as this it would be, respectfully, useful to know your sex in order to appreciate more your position.
 
SkodaMart said:
It certainly isn’t.
I see lots of stunning girls with losers
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Oslo Airport. Absolute bombshell with literally the fattest ugliest guy I've ever laid eyes upon. She was well dressed, stylish, clean. He was wearing holey tracksuit bottoms and a threadbare stained t-shirt. Still can't work that one out in my head.
 
Dis86 said:
Women couldn't possibly be attracted to a hideous man just for money. They're far too noble to do such things.
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It's amazing how women can over look any faults in a guy as long as they can pay for everything.


It still seems rare for men to do it but there's been a few younger guys dating old women in the papers in the last decade, I don't even think they were rich just people who owned their own house :eek: and probably had a little bit in savings

Maybe it's a good strat must be a few million old biddies living alone with only 10-20 years left that own a house worth 400k or whatever.

get with them, get married look after them for their last 10-20 years and inherit the wealth, then use that wealth to hook up with a young one after.

They probably don't even want much more than someone to be around and stop them feeling so lonely.


loads of old married couples sleep in separate beds anyway? so you could probably convince them thats normal :P
 
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