Soldato
- Joined
- 22 Nov 2007
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Absolutely, i pretty much said the same thing a page or so back. If your average/below average its so easy to fall into a rut and never bother.If the guy on the right sorted out his hair and got some more sun (and sleep!) then actually, why not?
Problem is, lack of confidence makes you feel like it's not worth bothering to make an effort, so you don't, which results in looking like ****, which knocks your confidence more, which means you make even less effort... and repeat. Been there, done that, it's not an easy rut to get out of, but it is possible.