Not really an instant and this moment but anyway.
My son 19 lost his mum, my ex wife last month.
His mums best friend who she has known since being a small child, and a person who was around there every day , went on foreign holidays etc with them..
literally she disappeared out of his life, he hasn't seen or heard from her since the funeral, she was pretty much a second mum to him I guess.
she was milking his mums death on Facebook as well, almost as soon as it happened.
she offered him literally 0 help with anything..
Only family members he has are me and his half brother, literally everyone else from his mums line is dead or he's never known them.
you think you know people, and then you don't know them at all.