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Ballistix is there any condition you don't have?![]()
'Ouch, my ovaries!'.
Ballistix is there any condition you don't have?![]()
Hmm I think I dropped the ‘terminology ball’ here because what I meant to say is ‘feminine males’ and ‘masculine females’.No you can’t have feminine men or masculine women. They’re paradoxical. Everything that you deem feminine or masculine outside of biology is man made and socio-cultural. All you have to do is look in different peoples throughout the world to see that what is deemed masculine or feminine changes based on culture. What doesn’t change is biology. So if you think being a ‘woman’ is wearing a skirt and make up and naming yourself after a flower. Then you’re a fool.
Transgender ‘women’ are trying to be what society thinks women ought to be. But they will never be what women are.
Because the ‘ought’ is arbitrary and the ‘is’ is immutable.
To be masculine is to have attributes that are typically male and the be feminine is to have attributes that are typically female.
If you can have masculine women and feminine men, which I presume you agree with, then it logically follows that being masculine and feminine is not strictly linked with being biologically male or female. They are characteristics. Likewise, gender is the allocation of one’s self to a set of characteristics.
Discussions around gender typically involve a person feeling more inherently associated with one set of characteristics than another. If anyone wants to do that…. So what? It has no bearing on me whatsoever and if they are someone who does then go on to exhibit characteristics of their chosen gender then in some ways it makes more sense than insisting on calling them the gender typically associated with their biological sex.
In my mind and conscious, I know clear as day that I am a man. I don’t really think I have the right to deny a female calling him/her-self a man if that is likewise what she thinks and feels to be appropriate for her.
There seems to be much agony in the world caused by strict adherence to ideas. Better to be flexible where we can, I think.
I already would be doing, but you can't get it without prescription.
If you read the read of my posts you’ll see that I oppose the trans person competing against other females.A very simplistic view that ignores (perhaps unintentionally) the fact there are consequences for allowing trans people to compete in women's sport - that biological XX women are disadvantaged. There is one fact that can't be argued and that is the annals of history show men's records for sports are typically better than that of their female peers.
For example, high jump records are .c 16% higher for professional male athletes vs professional female athletes (based on OWR).
Like you I also wouldn't deny a man identifying as a woman, but I would never support their demands to compete as a woman because to do so is to not support the rights of women to have women's sport. There is a reason why we have male and female classifications.
This woman does not need to complete in weight lifting to be recongised as a woman, they will argue that isn't the case and to deny them is to be transphobic.
It's an impossible situation (to support both sides) because trans athletes will label anyone against trans inclusion in women's sport is transphobic, and women will argue those that allow biological men to compete as women are misogynistic.
If your levels are low the NHS will do it - a lot of clinics will investigate it and prescribe it for you. It's not for me, as my levels are fine (I get my bloodwork done every 6 months) but a few friends in their late 40s have started doing it.
You're talking to a wall, the guy seems more interested in everyone knowing he's ill with such and such a thing, that he may or may not have, and all the problems entailed rather than actually seriously fixing anything. It's always someone elses job.
Check his post history; so have many others.Ah fair enough - thought I'd try and help![]()
I also edited mine to address your point on being ‘flexible’.Hmm I think I dropped the ‘terminology ball’ here because what I meant to say is ‘feminine males’ and ‘masculine females’.
I’ve edited my post so that it now makes more sense.
You're talking to a wall, the guy seems more interested in everyone knowing he's ill with such and such a thing, that he may or may not have, and all the problems entailed rather than actually seriously fixing anything. It's always someone elses job.
Thanks for the heads-up.I also edited mine to address your point on being ‘flexible’.
Whether you say males or men is indifferent to me they are synonymous.
The original argument aside I’m not really bothered about the gendering of language either. My main gripe isn’t even that they believe they’re something they’re not. It’s that these people are so insecure that they require the validation of others also believing they’re something they’re not. I won’t do it. To use your terminology so we’re crystal clear. If you are a male and you believe you are female and need to physically mutilate your perfectly healthy male body then you are mentally ill. And I won’t play into your delusion.Thanks for the heads-up.
I think the crux of our ‘disagreement’ is as follows:
You think that masculine words like ‘men’, ‘man’ and ‘he’ belong exclusively to biological males (or put another way, that biological males are always men).
I think (and agree) that biological males are a discrete category in their own right, separate from biological females, but I am not concerned with biological females choosing to use those words or purporting to belong to any group that is associated with them (save that such biological females cannot be biological males).
Really then it’s a problem that derives from the use of language than anything else, because if we removed the idea of gender altogether, it’s entirely inconsequential and we actually have no disagreement at all.
Wonder how the Olympics will deal with genetic engineering and such...
The sad thing is lots of people think it’s not a good idea. They’re just ignored or labelled a ‘phobe.As Monty Python once said....
We will look back and ask ourselves why we felt this was a good idea whilst shaking our heads in amusement in generations to come IMHO.
The sad thing is lots of people think it’s not a good idea. They’re just ignored or labelled a ‘phobe.
I actually think it’s very few people who label, but they are very vociferous and empowered right now and that will change in time I think. Strange world right now.The sad thing is lots of people think it’s not a good idea. They’re just ignored or labelled a ‘phobe.
The sad thing is lots of people think it’s not a good idea. They’re just ignored or labelled a ‘phobe.
I actually think it’s very few people who label, but they are very vociferous and empowered right now and that will change in time I think. Strange world right now.