Virginity

jrodga2k5 · 15 Jan 2009 at 14:40

platypus said:
You're in for big problems if she's crap in the sack, likewise her with you. What a terrible thing it would be to marry someone that can't please you sexually.

thats my precise argument on the matter

RDM · 15 Jan 2009 at 14:40

platypus said:
You're in for big problems if she's crap in the sack, likewise her with you. What a terrible thing it would be to marry someone that can't please you sexually.

There is a certain amount of fun in learning together.

antijoke · 15 Jan 2009 at 14:40

What a brilliant read.

platypus · 15 Jan 2009 at 14:55

RDM said:
There is a certain amount of fun in learning together.

It's a lot more fun learning with someone that knows how to give head.

krooton · 15 Jan 2009 at 14:56

[TW]Fox;13282162 said:
Why is it strange? Some people are like that. I waited until I was 21 and was with somebody I really, really liked before I did it. Whats wrong with that? It might not be the norm but it's hardly weird.

Ditto on the age and someone special, if I could go back in time, I wouldn't change a thing

William · 15 Jan 2009 at 15:19

Voltar said:
Is it not strange in this day and age to be a virgin much after the age of say 18?

I'd say that was a big misconception, one that is easy to make when shagging is thrown at everyone through all forms of media.

I am on the Fox's side with this one. All my friends that threw it away at first felt cool amongst the crowd, but felt crap when they had a spliff and a chat.

edit: but obviously each to their own, my friends felt like that because, they are my friends we share similar personalities, beliefs etc...

!bluetonic! · 15 Jan 2009 at 15:27

I lost mine when I was 23. It was with a girl who had 7 previous partners that she told me about. (..and the rest). I didn't lose it any earlier because I was fat and didn't attract much interest from girls. I lost 5ish stone and then got laid. Result!

If you're holding onto it for the right person, I hope it works out. If it's just a 'human act', then play safe.

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/39100

Mr Jack said:
Voltaire said it best:

"It is an infantile superstition of the human spirit that virginity would be thought a virtue and not the barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge."

Wasn't Voltaire Permabanned last year?

Gaverick · 15 Jan 2009 at 15:37

I'm not really a relationship kind of guy, I just can't be bothered with all the faff that goes with it, I like to be able to do what I want when I want and not be tied down by someone, at least that's how I feel now, probably just because I'm still young though.

I lost mine on a one night stand to someone I met on a night out. We got chatting and it was pretty obvious we both wanted it so near the end of the night I took her back to my uni room and banged her until I could bang no more

I don't think she was a virgin and I didn't tell her I was, and she didn't seem to notice, all that porn must have taught me something

. For me it was everything I had expected and hoped for and I wouldn't change it if I had the choice.

In the morning we got chatting and it turned out we actually had a fair bit in common, it never turned in to a relationship because as I said that's not what I'm looking for, but we remain friends.

It didn't bother me if she was a virgin or not because at the end of the night we both got what we wanted, no kittens were hurt and as long as it's all safe I'd happily do it again (well I have on a few occasions).

Anewbe4u · 15 Jan 2009 at 15:39

I lost mine to cheap whore

poopots · 15 Jan 2009 at 16:30

platypus · 15 Jan 2009 at 16:33

poopots said:
I got bummed out by an ex.

Lets just quote that out of context for a minute.

penski · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:00

!bluetonic! said:
I lost mine when I was 23. It was with a girl who had 7 previous partners that she told me about. (..and the rest). I didn't lose it any earlier because I was fat and didn't attract much interest from girls. I lost 5ish stone and then got laid. Result!

Bullcrap. I was fat when I lost my virginity and I'm still fat now.

If you didn't attract any of the wimmenz, it wouldn't have been because of your size.

*n

benneh · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:00

I think that it's only really an issue if you haven't lost it by the time you hit 21. I've known one or two people like that, and they have both been rather odd characters.

Overall; sex is sex. It's neither here nor there.

Soulja · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:17

Creature said:
Agreed, however there are sometimes where it can be a little bit more special.

Threesome?

loltim · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:29

benneh said:
I think that it's only really an issue if you haven't lost it by the time you hit 21. I've known one or two people like that, and they have both been rather odd characters.

Overall; sex is sex. It's neither here nor there.

Don't quite understand that. You're a weirdo at 21+ but it's fine if you're 20 or less?

OK

I'd have no issue with dating a 22 year old virgin.

J1234 · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:30

penski said:
Anyone who places more value on sex than it being an enjoyable pastime is quite frankly backward.

*n

Have to agree with you there.

meghatronic · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:32

penski said:
Anyone who places more value on sex than it being an enjoyable pastime is quite frankly backward.

*n

Isn't that an argument for polyamory then?

Margaret · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:32

poopots said:
I got bummed out by an ex.
I went into a relationship with her at 16, that lasted over a year with her not putting out.

Totally frustrating for an eger young teenager who just wanted to sausage her.
It was probably the fundamental element on why the relationship deteriated and ended.

It also led to me cheating on her quite a number of times, I came abit too close to losing it to another girl on a number of ocations. I only backed off, just incase I did eventually seal the deal with the ex.

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

benneh said:
I think that it's only really an issue if you haven't lost it by the time you hit 21.

Hmm, don't really see the difference between that age and some years before but your call!

Sanguinnus · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:35

penski said:
Anyone who places more value on sex than it being an enjoyable pastime is quite frankly backward.

*n

this

Yamahahahahaha · 15 Jan 2009 at 17:43

Don't think it makes a difference.

It's nice if she's had some practice (Not too much, mind), it's a shared experience regardless of what happens and how many people either of you have been with.