Virginity

arknor said:
i think dating a virgin would be better than dating someone who's had a lot of sex.

with the virgin you can convince them kinky stuff is normal and be like "yea anal is the new missionary position everyone is doing it" :D

on a more serious note virgins are more likely to experiment while experienced partners are more likely to know what they want without much variation which = boring.
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Nope, I disagree.

My gfs who have had a decent number of partners had a better view on sex, knew what they liked, knew how to enjoy it, and knew some tricks.

The ones who had only been with one or two people were still finding their way and as such were rather uninspiring in the sack.
 
lose it by 21 or you're odd is a pile of rubbish

I lost mine when i was 27, i had a long term gf and we both wanted to wait until we got married. Got divorced 3 years later, but i have a new partner now. 5 years later i've probably done it more times than most 25 year olds.
 
I liked the idea that my X g/f was a virgin. Once she had lost it to me she was a right little nympho. Also she will probably remember me for the rest of her life.
 
robgmun said:
lose it by 21 or you're odd is a pile of rubbish

I lost mine when i was 27, i had a long term gf and we both wanted to wait until we got married. Got divorced 3 years later, but i have a new partner now. 5 years later i've probably done it more times than most 25 year olds.
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Yeah but only to 2 women, so its not exactly awe inspiring lol
 
Hedge said:
Yeah but only to 2 women, so its not exactly awe inspiring lol
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i really don't care if it's awe inspiring to other blokes, i don't want to have a history of multiple partners as i want to be in a long term loving relationship. Still at least i get it twice a day
 
When i was young and in my prime.
I got my leg over many a time.
But now i am old and turning grey.
I can only manage it once a day.
 
I think every one thinks of the "Virginty" issue differently! Im 21 and ive only slept with 4 different girls, but that doesn't bother me at all! I have a couple of mates the same age who have slept with 20 and 27 women and they can be a bit cocky some times thinking they are some kind of demi gods when we are out on the town! They give me a bit of crap some times like calling me a virgin etc because of my lack of conquests :confused: but i think that they look really ignorant and a bit sad when they come out with the insults!
 
I’m 24 and I’ve never even kissed a girl. But that’s because I never talk to girls rather than because I am overweight/geeky/some other common reason.

I’m just busy with work and don’t go out that much, and when I do I tend to stick with mates. I am shy and have a low self esteem; I just wouldn’t know what to say to a girl! It would not surprise me in the least If I remained a virgin forever.
 
A very interesting thread.

I think that the culture/religion/country that you originate from also has a massive factor in the way you perceive sex.

For example, most average white people living in England don't seem to care about virginity. If you go to a Muslim country (like Indonesia) though, the emphasis on virginity (for both male and female) is much more important - especially when it comes to getting married and finding the best possible partner.

Similarly, if you go to a very strict (white) Christian household, the emphasis on maintaining your decency (driven by religious beliefs) is instilled into the children by the parents, hence, virginity to the children is likely to be more important. I know a white family like this.

I find that Muslims tend to be the group who are most particular about virginity and whether or not the partner has "been around".

For the record, I have been brought up as a Muslim, with all the beliefs of the religion, but no longer follow the religion due to my lack of belief in the existence of God. That said, I still follow the rules and morals taught to me by my parents.
 
robgmun said:
lose it by 21 or you're odd is a pile of rubbish

I lost mine when i was 27, i had a long term gf and we both wanted to wait until we got married. Got divorced 3 years later, but i have a new partner now. 5 years later i've probably done it more times than most 25 year olds.
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See to me that's just not normal. I'm not generally particularly normal myself, but 27 is a bit far.Late teens/early twenties for well rounded development, imo of course.
 
benneh said:
See to me that's just not normal. I'm not generally particularly normal myself, but 27 is a bit far.Late teens/early twenties for well rounded development, imo of course.
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Who decided that having sex was something that everyone is expected to do to be "normal"? Perhaps it’s just not all that important to some people?
 
Lost mine wasted with someone i didn't know.

Took a girl's and it was not something I'd aim for again, just not really that fun to be honest for their first time. Wincing and hushed cries of pain are just not hot :p
 
Kobrakai said:
Who decided that having sex was something that everyone is expected to do to be "normal"? Perhaps it’s just not all that important to some people?
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I certainly don't agree with the pressure people are under to go out and have sex.

I'm just saying that it's basically 'normal' for people in our society to begin sexual relations in their late teens, and so the people that don't are seen to be odd, which no doubt has a negative effect on them, or at least on peoples perception of them. I personally think that it was an important part of my development.
If I was still a virgin now (26) I can't see a scenario in which that could be a good thing.
 
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