Exactly. Whip it out, way out. Fast.
Helpful Nix, away!
If I didn't know you in real life and only on here, I'm not sure if we'd be friends..
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Exactly. Whip it out, way out. Fast.
Helpful Nix, away!
I weep for the future....
Are you actually debating whether you want to stay with the "LOVE OF YOUR LIFE" based on whether you get to see what she is like in bed now or after you marry her?
I got news for you mate, everyone was a virgin at one point. Any girls that you have slept with and thought were amazing in bed, were rubbish to begin with.
If she isn't so great, and it's a high likelyhood she won't be, then feel free to teach, explore, learn together to become better at the act.
If you can't even be bothered to do this for the love of your life, frankly you're immature and you don't deserve to have found her so you should step aside and let someone else sweep her off her feet, she deserves it.
It's honestly no wonder why I hear from women all the time "Oh it's so hard to find a good man these days". That's cause all our young men seem to be obsessed with sex.
yep. sex is important, lets not behave like it isn't. its your girlfriend thats being selfish and her narrow minded religious beliefs will only come back and bite you later on in life - get out while you can, you will find another 'love of your life'.
What a load of crap. Women who say 'it's so hard to find a good man nowadays' are the ones who sleep with Mr Nasty. They 'say' they want a good man and some do but there is a vast majority of them out there who just go for the 'bad boy' image. They know they're going to get hurt yet go for it anyway.
m4cc45 said:Whether you like it or not sex is part of a relationship - we're not all going backwards to the day when you asked for peoples hand in marriage, attended the church every Sunday, etc, etc.
M.
While that is a rather harsh way of putting it, I agree that the differing beliefs could be an issue. After all, if she takes her faith as seriously as she appears to then she is pretty much duty bound to bring the op to God.
Generalise much?
Whatever. Some of us do go to church every sunday, and do believe in no sex before marriage, and do ask for hands in marriage. It sounds like this girl plays by those rules, and the op is not going to do anyone any favours if he tries to get around that.
what would you do?
I'd probably get rid of her unless she was open minded in other ways. I think that following a religion 100% is the workings of a delusional mindset.
*Waits for retaliation* Although I'm not being ignorant merely stating my opinion, other academic studies think so to.
Academic studies show that people strictly following a religion are delusional? I'd love to see those studies...
You've met the love of your life, your soul mate, the perfect opposite of you
IS THAST WHAT I SAID?
I said "I THINK" and said OTHER STUDIES also "THINK".
*Facepalm*
Yes I generalise because that's real life.
m4cc45 said:Statistically there are more people who don't do the things mentioned above than do.
m4cc45 said:You say rules - it shouldn't be rules but how they feel that decides this that's the worst thing I hear that you need rules to live by, rules to go out with a person, rules to attend church, rules to go about your day to day live.
m4cc45 said:Being advised by a person who hasn't had sex on how to have sex, being advised how to live your life by someone with no life experience.
m4cc45 said:Can we not think for ourselves?
m4cc45 said:How would you feel if you were enaged to this person then found out later she had been sleeping around?
m4cc45 said:The OP needs to decide what he wants and how he feels rather than getting entwined in something he doesn't sound happy about. If he's not happy about it now then in several months time it's going to be even worse.
m4cc45 said:Especially if someone come's on to him.
One up the bum, no harm done.
andy: marrying for sex isn't the best reason to get married.