Every ones opinions are coloured by what there life experiences and often other peoples use cases seem irrational to them, that's fair enough, much like buying an EV to me as a main car when it lacks this flexibility, there's a cost saving and comfort element to 'vans and it opens up options.
We got a van getting fed up spending thousands on vacations in school holidays ( we actually started camping but wanted more comforts), a van is a big out lay but your school holiday breaks end up costing half a grand rather than multiples of grands, depreciation curve of vans is pretty much flat if you've bought a good used one, you can sell it in a decade for much the same.
For example, we let the kids stay in the south of France in the van for summer vacation, 6 wks, £700, bargain, no much local accommodation we could rent for that. you also have everything in these little mobile boxes, entertainment, bikes, boats, toys very handy for kids, sure I can understand many would rather pay an extra grand a week and stay in and airbnb/hotel etc and we still do that too, having a van didn't stop that, it just meant I could take many more holidays a year versus a couple of big ones.
Besides, also tow other things besides van.
We spent this weekend at a nice campsite in the middle of a forest. Been on plenty of walks and bike rides during the day and chilled out with a BBQ and beer in the evenings.
91 miles home this afternoon, 48kwh used, 528wh/mile - no hang around behind a lorry either, 60mph all the way back.
what’s the cost of diesel/petrol these days? There was many people pootling along at 50 today being overtaken by me and the trucks.