Why are YOU single?

krooton said:
That's my biggest problem, I'm not willing to sacrifice who I am just to make superficial women want me, I want to be with someone with likes me for who I actually am.
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I couldn't have put it better myself. There's no way I could put on an act 24/7 whilst being around a girl - it would be utterly exhausting!

I believe I'm a genuinely interesting person - However I tend to like the opposite to what everyone else likes, same with opinions on things.
 
I think im single because im a bit quiet and too laid back! Been trying to get with a girl for 2 months now, but she is worse than me! She wont even speak to me on the phone even though shes fine when we bump into each other face to face lol! Just seems to be going in a circle all the time sending messages on Facebook and the occasional text! Not sure what to do really except keep chipping away at her shell!
 
jakeke said:
I had a girl tell me recently that she was very attracted to me and felt a very close connection to me but that we shouldn't take things further as she couldn't see it ever working and that she wouldn't want to end up as nothing, so we should stay friends.

She does live 300 miles away and is 5 years older than me, so maybe she had a point in this instance ..

Every situation is different!
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Fugly.

Next.
 
I've had some interest recently, but they just weren't my type. I'm either too choosey, ugly, or choosey and ugly:p

meh, might turn gay:cool:
 
Am single because there doesn't appear to be any nice single men in my town. They're either complete (insert appropriate rude word), have a gf, have a bf or are too old for me.
(i dont mean that offensively just that i don't think I would have that much in common with them.)

My brother in law says i shouldn't use websites like match.com etc and that I should try to meet people in the real world. He thinks its easy to meet people in a pub. The problem is though that I dont go to the pub that often. I find my locals are boring and they are full of the above mentioned men.

So I've decided, i'm going to concentrate on myself, sort some things out, be happy with myself again, get some confidence back etc. Obviously if I did meet someone that would be great but I'm not going to go out looking because thats when I end up meeting the wrong kind of guys. Plus this may sound silly but the thought of dating again scares me!lol
I haven't had much luck with men!

My neice has already suggested I become a lesbian as in her words "well the last three bfs didnt work out so why not" (not gonna happen though lol)

I know I should be thinking "wow im single I can do anything I want" and at times it is good being single but it would be nice to have someone to cuddle up to etc

I have promised myself though that if there is a next one he has to accept me for me.

Sorry that was probably just a ramble but i'm rather tired lol
 
I have no problems approaching a girl. It's just finding something to talk about. Once we know what each other are in to I could chat for hours, and have done so in the past. Just getting past that first hurdle!
 
A few reasons, mainly that I dont like approaching people I dont know, and I dont know why, as I easily get on with people once ive met them.

Looks wise, im a chunky bugger, which until recently has knocked me a bit, but it doesnt seem to bother people as much as I thought it did.

Main reason though, until about a year ago I spent my life locked up in my room on the computer, doing sweet naff all. Looking back, i wish id never done it, as now I dont know a huge amount of people, so when i actually fancy going out, im limited to whats going down.

Just came out of a relationship before christmas, which luckily only lasted a few weeks so it didnt really bother me, as i though a xmas break up would suck. Lovely lass, just wasnt going anywhere so it was kind of a mutual decision to call it a day.
 
crooked i said:
no girls in uni either :(
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I know exactly what your saying. My uni has dedicated buildings, and the one i use is Computing and Engineering, you try finding a female in that building, its nearly not doable.

Had 2 years at college, and between 30 of us there were 2 lasses, one lovely, but taken and the other a total tart that you wouldnt touch with a barge pole. Same deal at uni, 100 students, 2 lasses plus that tart I went to college with.....great.
 
Stellios said:
Had 2 years at college, and between 30 of us there were 2 lasses, one lovely, but taken and the other a total tart that you wouldnt touch with a barge pole. Same deal at uni, 100 students, 2 lasses plus that tart I went to college with.....great.
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Which college/uni did you goto that only had 30/100 students?
 
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