Why are YOU single?

All you shy people, get away from your computer and get out there and talk to people!! Stop blaming it on shyness - it's not an excuse as far as I'm concerned. I have very low self esteem but I'm not shy (I can't be in my job anyway) however don't let self esteem turn you into a recluse. Shyness is just another word for being socially immature - so go out and develop some social maturity instead of spending every hour of the day on the forums!

This.

Was looking through a few pages to see if it had been said, If not, then I was going to say it.

Again, This!
 
FreeFaller is the daddy. I agree with him on this (the term socially immature I get, but would phrase differently)
 
It's good to be single - for sure. but you get to the point where being single has lost it's appeal and you want to get back out there. Well, that's what it's like for me.

Bit of a late reply but yeah I'd agree with that. Can't help thinking that Im probably getting quite close to that stage now.
 
Maybe a little harsh I agree, but it encompasses what I'm trying to say. :)

As for being the daddy, well there's no proof it's mine! :D

Chosen to edit this as I was kinda insulted by your post Freefaller but I am acknowledging that your Don status carries some weight. I don't think your comment about shy people in this thread leant itself constructively at all.

As for my single status? I am SHY, I have excellent social skills, plenty of online and rl friends but just don't fair so well in communicating with the fairer sex. Oh and winning the BMI thread in a bad way kinda doesn't help.
 
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Standards, yes I can go down the town centre at weekend and pull a random girl but the quality is rather lacking, I have started hanging with my mate at uni more which means more high qualitity female exposure.

I just don't want to have to act not like myself and be liked , i have male friends that like me and even a few females, so why no attractive, funny, intelligent, single females?

i am a special person and require a special lady, until i find someone suitable I am not compromising just for the sake of being in a relationship, but i'll say anything to get a 1 night stand. :D
 
Where is it you live now? Will be moving again soonish. Need a garden.

Sadly I have had no choice but to move back in with the parents. Am living in Nailsea til I can find a job and afford to live somewhere again.
:(
 
Rubbish, hope you find something soon. Living back with parents isn't fun once you move out.

Indeed, thankfully they have let me have a virgin plus box in my room so I am spending lots of time in there hiding out :D

Anyway, thread is very off topic now so I shall shuddup and await you asking me out :p
 
i am a special person and require a special lady, until i find someone suitable I am not compromising just for the sake of being in a relationship, but i'll say anything to get a 1 night stand. :D
1 night stands are easy to get,,,,,,,,,,it's trying to find a girl that wants to be in a proper relationship that dam hard :(
 
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