Why are YOU single?

SEVEN said:
Im single as my girlfriend wanted me to be. Now i think my single status is being sustained by me living in the same house as my ex as we cant get out of the mortgage with out both being financially crippled. As you may imagine its hard to have a relationship while having your ex hovering about. Meh.
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That really really sucks, can you not just start bringing totty back and hope she doesn't notice? :p
 
I am 14:D
I am not the best lolking of guys but can still get a 'decent' girlfriend, try and become good friends with them start opening up bit by bit, make them laugh then start moving onto flirting.
 
I can't take a pic right now, so I'll have to upload a facebook one.

lowrider007 said:
You don't need to post pic's, just be clean, be confident, dress well, job done, in your world your number one, if someone isn't interested that's their loss, simple as.
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People do tell me that I've got a low self image, but the way you've put it, does it not seem a bit selfish?
 
It does help in a relationship since you know all about them what they like and hate plus what other ways can you get to a girl you like?
 
Oh hell no, what the................, I read the first few pages and gave up, ok all the shy guys and the im too ugly's ect ect, stop this nonsense, right to the point,

If I can pull so can you.

Im single at the moment but that's by choice, im having some single time ;) after coming out of a long sentence :rolleyes:.
 
anant_shah94 said:
I can't take a pic right now, so I'll have to upload a facebook one.



People do tell me that I've got a low self image, but the way you've put it, does it not seem a bit selfish?
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how is that selfish, how can someone else love you if you cant even love yourself?
You need to respect yourself etc, be confident and theyll be confident in you.
Taking the **** out yourself is usually a good one to do, drag them into the **** taking and before theyll know it they will think your such great fun and the flirting will be shameless.
 
I started my own business 5 and a half years ago and since then my social life (and confidence) has been on a downward spiral. I do not have much opportunity to meet girls and as I have been quite isolated don't have much to talk about.

Apart from that I am horrendously skinny, my standards are too high and I refuse to lower them.

I am at a turning point now where I need to make some changes in my life.

Other than that I should have a POF date coming up soon. :D
 
I don't usually air it on a public forum... and its a lot to explain but...

Reason why I'm single mostly comes down to the fact that my parents are religious nut jobs, I spent most of my childhood isolated from the "normal" world, while isolating myself as much as possible from their world... result I find it very very hard to relate to people.

And unfortunatly due to a (past) spell of unemployment I'm living back at home which makes things very difficult atm, hopefully when things pickup I'll be able to afford a place of my own again and be myself.

I'm certainly not single for lack of interest, which makes it a bit easier to deal with.
 
Broke up with a wonderful girl 7 months ago due to long distance and not having the time I wanted to give to her as a result of work and college. I'm socially inept and don't meet many new people at all so chances of me meeting anyone new in the near future are slim to nil.
 
Piccy
This is a few weeks old, will get my hair cut in a week. A lot of friends have said that I need to have more self confidence and all, part of it stems from me not being taken seriously due to my size which I'm working on improving anyway. To be honest, I'm not crazily concerned about my appearance, I just think that it could be loads better.

and before you ask, yes those are highlights in my hair :o
Lasith Malinga anyone? :p
 
I don't particularly enjoy 'going out' to clubs, pubs and bars, so don't meet any new girls there. Because I'm too nice, and tend to 'friend zone' any girl I meet anyway, which doesn't really help. Plus, I'm not particularly good a small talk.
 
You most girls don't mind a man out not having a six pack(i am lucky to:P) as long as they care for them and willing to put in the effort they really don't care how they look.
 
I'm not any more, however... I'm beginning to wish I was, she has yet to pay for ANYTHING in the last 4 or so weeks we've been together and I'm getting pretty tired of picking her up too when she has a perfectly good , road legal car.

/rant. :D
 
mjones1 said:
You most girls don't mind a man out not having a six pack(i am lucky to:P) as long as they care for them and willing to put in the effort they really don't care how they look.
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Unfortunately for me, I don't actually have six abs, I only have 4, so not matter how much fat I lose, there will only be four
 
Can't be bothered to go into detail, so I'll just leave it with the usual dull response: I'm shy and lack confidence.

Klo said:
I don't particularly enjoy 'going out' to clubs, pubs and bars, so don't meet any new girls there. Because I'm too nice, and tend to 'friend zone' any girl I meet anyway, which doesn't really help. Plus, I'm not particularly good a small talk.
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I'm also this ^.
 
through choice.

sort my own mess out first so i don't have to involve anyone else. i don't want someone to be with me because of pity or any crap.

i am warming to the idea as time goes on and i heal but it's been so long i've forgotten how to even progress through it. been at least 18 months since i've even considered it. how sad is that!!! lol :o:D
 
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