Why do women do what they do?

Fenris said:
Is this a regular occurrence?
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Falling asleep or waking her up. Generally my gf is tired from work.. So she falls asleep early. She always asks to be woken up lol but it depends on the hour I go to bed as I have to think of her having work the next day ( I work too but I'm always tired anyway)

So a 3 or 4 nights a week I'll wake her up :)

As for where u can buy one... I got mine from Fewicks lol
 
I dont understand mine at all. I'm now down to sex about once a month which can somtimes be once every six weeks. yes she is the mother of my children and I do love her but come on surely if she 'loves me' she can manage more than once a month? I try to initiate sex but 9 out of 10 times I get refused. When she wants It i'm like a rat up a drain pipe. Get her into bed then suddenly realising that I'm not going to get any as her body language is saying no. Next thing I know she is asking for a cuddle and is too tired WTF???!! and she wonders why she keeps finding porn on my pc.

She once had the audacity to accuse me of pestering her for sex! I completly blew my top.
 
I don't understand... Whats are these women you speak about in this mythical language?

Don't think I've met one before online.

Met plenty of Dark Elves & Undead... But never a woman before.


lulz. ;)
 
wnb said:
I dont understand mine at all. I'm now down to sex about once a month which can somtimes be once every six weeks. yes she is the mother of my children and I do love her but come on surely if she 'loves me' she can manage more than once a month? I try to initiate sex but 9 out of 10 times I get refused. When she wants It i'm like a rat up a drain pipe. Get her into bed then suddenly realising that I'm not going to get any as her body language is saying no. Next thing I know she is asking for a cuddle and is too tired WTF???!! and she wonders why she keeps finding porn on my pc.

She once had the audacity to accuse me of pestering her for sex! I completly blew my top.
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I would suggest you guys consider giving Relate a try. It can be difficult for you to understand but from her view point you could well be pestering her.

I speak from experience as I went through something similar and thanks to Relate things got fixed. Just don't expect it to be easy but then again marriage never is!
 
wnb said:
I dont understand mine at all. I'm now down to sex about once a month which can somtimes be once every six weeks. yes she is the mother of my children and I do love her but come on surely if she 'loves me' she can manage more than once a month? I try to initiate sex but 9 out of 10 times I get refused. When she wants It i'm like a rat up a drain pipe. Get her into bed then suddenly realising that I'm not going to get any as her body language is saying no. Next thing I know she is asking for a cuddle and is too tired WTF???!! and she wonders why she keeps finding porn on my pc.

She once had the audacity to accuse me of pestering her for sex! I completly blew my top.
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Do you give her affection and attention at other times when you don't want sex, as in just for the sake of giving her a hug and a kiss? Or do you only turn it on (pardon the pun) when you want to get your leg over? Have a think about that, and maybe just try giving her some affection some time and not want/need it to lead to sex. Women need to feel appreciated at other times, not just when you want to get your end away. :)

Also does she do the large part of the housework/childcare because if shes knackered all the time from that, then the last thing on her mind is going to be horizontal tango. If you try helping her out with sharing things, that will ease some of her stress levels. Its sometimes hard to switch between "Mum" and "Sexy lady" when you have no time to yourself. :)
 
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