what culture are you talking of? drinking? because that is the only difference between you & "us"! how are english people part of the "society" do you all sing cumbaya with your neighbours every night and us muslims don't? No.. do you all go on holidays together and we dont? No.. do you go out drinking? yes but ONLY with your friends..
Have you or anyone else bothered talking to a non-white person, being their friend etc etc? We are just like you. everyone most of the time keeps them to themselves, we dont suddenly start speaking to asian person any more than a non-asian person. We stick together in terms of family/relations just like everyone else. we have friends (white, black, chinese etc etc) just like you, we go to work, speak with colleagues etc, even go out to parties etc..
Sure the older generation doesn't do this because of language barriers etc but us young generation are!