Six out of eight of my old housemates are all hopelessly addicted to WoW to the point where I don't really speak to them anymore. It's too painful to listen to a night where the only discussion is WoW and where they'll be on their laptops playing as they talk to you.
It's appallingly sad to a length that cannot be described. I lived with them as they started their decent into MMORPG hell. I warned and teased them that they'd all be like crack addicts a few months down the line and they used to get
very offended over it. Now they're complete addicts.
There was a three day period that one of my housemates didn't move from her seat in the living room with her laptop. Her husband brought her food for the full three days and she slept in short breaks for maybe an hour every 8 or so hours. It was a truly disturbing site to wake up each morning for work and see her sat there, get in from work and see her sat there, go out with friends and get back in and she'd still be there. Her husband never used to play WoW, but since they've moved into a flat with just each other he has started playing and is now totally hooked (I'm guessing to try and finally get some quality time with his wife).
The other guys I lived with moved in with some of their other friends who are also completely whacked out on WoW. It really is scary. The only time we hear from them is when it's one of their birthdays and we get invited over for a drink and to listen to them talk about absolutely nothing else but WoW (and I really do mean NOTHING else).
They've pretty much lost all contact with the world outside of WoW and their WoW group. They play obsessively with every single spare minute of their day. They joke about how into the game they are and how they know it's all they ever talk about, but the second myself, my missus or my friends have tried to point out that they're dangerously addicted and have lost contact with everyone and everything else, they get very very defensive.
I honestly think it would be far healthier and safer to indulge in a spot of heroin or crack. I think it would do far less damage than WoW is currently doing to them.
I have been addicted to Ultima, Everquest and especially DAOC in the past. I'll never touch one of those games again. DAOC expecially killed my social life for a good couple of years and left me with no drive to do anything other than play. I thought I had it bad, but the people I mentioned above have gone 100 times deeper into addiction than I thought was possible. I guess it is down to knowing and living with other addicts who make them feel like it is all a normal part of life.
Kodiak said:
Meh, WoW is adictive as you want it to be.
TBH if your finding yourself playing it for more than 8hrs a day, then you should step back and look at what your doing. You may be one of these people who is easily addicted to games and you should limit the amount you play.
If you're playing for more than 3- 4 hours a day I'd say you have a problem. Eight hours of the day is a
1/3 of the day. I'd say even playing for 3 - 4 hours a day is far far far too much. Unfortunately the crack head companies who develop these games make various encounters/ quests need 3- 4 or more hours to complete for the very reason of getting people addicted.
If you can't put it down after 30 minutes/ drop of a hat, then it is just not worth playing under any circumstances. There's nothing sadder than "Honey, I'm horny, get your ass in here" or "Dude, lets go get blasted at the local" or "<insert real life moment here>" when your reply is "Sorry, I need to go to the realm of Outer Gobeldygook to get an imaginary gem to imbue my sword first. I'll be there in 6 hours or not at all." That is
if that person still has contact with non- pixelated people who aren't their parents or peeved off partner.