Soldato
I know several people who have done the same and ended up as daddy!Brutal!
I know several people who have done the same and ended up as daddy!Brutal!
Got an interesting weekend coming up, 2nd date tonight with a new girl I met online, she seems quite keen so far, and I quite fancy her too, but also meeting the ex tomorrow night for a "drink". It's been tough getting over the breakup, it felt really unlucky and the split was unexpected as we were quite happy together beforehand, but now that I've finally made some progress and feeling like my own man again she wants to remake plans we had made when we were together, and has asked to meet. She's been in contact occasionally for usually innocuous reasons but this time her tone is more serious, I don't really know her motivation currently but somethings up and she wants to talk. Now that I have options I feel less at the mercy of my emotions at least, I swear women are like buses.
My motivation? Mixture of curiosity, concern, compassion and stupidity. Date last night went alright, enjoying getting to know someone and taking it slow, definitely some tension building up in that regard though.Why do you want to meet your ex tomorrow night for a drink? Are you truly over it? I'd definitely avoid it.
She's pregnant and the baby is yours, she wants to discuss maintenance payments and access arrangements.She's been in contact occasionally for usually innocuous reasons but this time her tone is more serious, I don't really know her motivation currently but somethings up and she wants to talk.
A further update to the ongoing saga that is the breakup of my 17-year marriage and 25+ year relationship.
My wife moved her furniture out of the house last weekend - fool that I am, I helped her do it. I won't refer to it as the marital home anymore, because it obviously isn't and it doesn't feel like 'home' to me anymore in any case. It's become just a building that I happen to currently live in. It lost a major part of its 'soul' when she moved out - now her possessions have gone as well, it just feels totally soul-less. Hope you can understand what I mean ...
It's horrible mate, absolutely horrible and I wouldn't wish it on anybody else. It's literally torn my world apart. She moved out at the end of July and confirmed we were over on the day after our 17th wedding anniversary. Never a good time, but that struck me as particularly insensitive, bordering on sick. Since then, I've been as low as I ever want to be and the climb back up again is a steep one, with a lot of deceptive drops along the way.I can't imagine how much more difficult it must be to part with someone after 25+ years though
I was on a date tonight through OkCupid and my date told me that the strangest message she'd received had told her that her elbows were too pointy. I immediately thought of this forum.
Are pointy elbows exclusive to OCUK or is this an Internet thing I'm not aware of. Anyone care to confess?
Maybe it was originally stolen from female discussion because of how ridiculous it was. I've heard some crazy reasons from women as to why they won't date someone.I've heard females use it in my work place about men they have seen or dated. It can't only be a internet thing... surely!?!???
Maybe it was originally stolen from female discussion because of how ridiculous it was. I've heard some crazy reasons from women as to why they won't date someone.
Look at that take me out show for example, they buzz someone out if they don't like his shoes.
Christ gents, steady on! I’ve been out of the dating game nearly 30 years and getting back in it fills me with enough dread as it is! In the current climate, it already feels as if you need written consent before going to bed with a woman ...Or because the man isn't taller than them with heels, they look like their dad, ex or they don't want to be second best against the mans dog!
These are the same women who will kick off if a men pays more attention to another women who is slimmer and younger than them. Even if they don't fancy him!
Christ gents, steady on! I’ve been out of the dating game nearly 30 years and getting back in it fills me with enough dread as it is! In the current climate, it already feels as if you need written consent before going to bed with a woman ...
I hate the hypocrisy over height.
Saying guys are shallow but insisting on but being taller
Both are personal preference. Don't pretend you're all high and mighty when your aren't.
Men are not allowed to prefer thin women though