Just don't pay attention to what she says, mcast, but also let things naturally evolve by being a dick, like Roar suggests.
Where on earth did I say be a dick? Can you stop harassing my posts if you aren't going to at least be intellectually honest with your dull pointless critique?
Women speak in subtext a lot, they do it to each other, it's not exactly a revelation to suggest they may say one thing but actually mean another. Hence why I said you should pay attention to her actions rather than her words. I'm very eager to get your advice, though I know you making a contribution to a post and leaving yourself open to criticism will never actually happen.