Bartender at Wetherspoons

I've asked out a barmaid before. I asked for a pint and then gave her my number and said it'd be nice to see her again some time. She texted me, job was a good 'un.

Try not to over-think it. What am I saying? This is OCUK!
 
anything I don't mind said:
Serious? I even goggled it and came across a yahoo answers that said that bartender was the correct term as barmaid was dated. :rolleyes: lol i was going to use "bar lady", how about the girl behind the bar at whetherspoon who makes drinks and takes orders.
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Over the past god knows how many years in the UK its been a bar man and a bar maid. In america however, bar tender is the term they use.

Fenris said:
This isn't an American sitcom, take her for dinner and a movie.
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You mean a film rather than the american description 'a movie' ;)
 
OP the fact you've had to contemplate this and have bothered to start a thread rather than simply asking her last time you saw her means you're likely not very good/experienced at this sort of thing. That also implies that you may well have simply mistaken the pretty barmaid's friendly/smiley nature as actual flirting/interest in you and not just how she acts with all the customers.

Still there is nothing to lose - barmaids do get asked out all the time, especially the pretty, smiley, flirty ones - just do it... so long as you do so without being super awkward about it then it doesn't matter...
 
OP didn't progress with the Pret A Manger girl even with excellent guidance from myself and others. I expect nothing more to come of this one either.

e: wait, OP is groen, right?

e2: aha! another lucky groen lady venture

e3: Which makes post #18 in this thread all the more magnificent. Groenception, burnsy. Bravo!
 
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Holy sweet nipular penis feces.

You're seriously asking an internet forum if you should ask out a random girl?

You don't want to ruin that nonexistent relationship you already have with her or something? Christ.
 
Pret and Wetherspoons? Is it the ladies or their vocations that appeal to you? Have you consider retraining to work in the service industry?

Just ask her out you wimp, one of two things will happen:

1. She say yes, everybody is happy.

2. She says no, you sit in the corner weeping quietly into your Monday night curry club madras. It's awkward.
 
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