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Sounds like my kinda man tbh! I had the same issue, wanted good interior quality and toys but wasn't hugely bothered about a big car and don't have the age issues he may have. As it stands ended up with a 6 series because it gave me what I wanted for a good price. It's freaking huge though.this is the problem. He is willing to give up the size but he wants quality and toys. The new Q5 or SQ5 could be good but you end up on the wrong end of 50k after options.
Will take a look at a X1. Maybe even a x4 could be worth considering.