Bro Code - Was this against it?

I dont know about "bro code" but "dont **** on your door step" springs to mind.

Have you spoken to your friend/flatmate since? I'm sure he must feel a bit low considering a girl known for putting it about a bit has turned him down and gone with you.
 
Dannyb01y said:
I dont know about "bro code" but "dont **** on your door step" springs to mind.

Have you spoken to your friend/flatmate since? I'm sure he must feel a bit low considering a girl known for putting it about a bit has turned him down and gone with you.
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maybe he should sort him self out and be all alpha.

he could borrow some protein shakes off the op :p
 
He needs to stop being a poof really, his problem not yours. She is single as are you. If you had to not sleep with someone because someone else likes them you would be sexless for quite sometime.
 
I doubt hes gonna talk to you for a few weeks. Regardless of how you see it with him having no chance, she used you to prove a point you obliged. You should give him a reach around at least next time....
 
Bro code states that if you have not had sex for 4month you are forgiver for whatever means* you use to do what has to be done.(nothing illegal)
 
Desperation does that to a guy,

You think a dude hitting up a lot of girls regularly in gonna bang his homies crush? No he's gonna take him out to meet more girls.

You are a **** friend, simple.

And I was involved in this in the past, I stepped on my friends toes in a similar but not exact sense and realised how much a **** friend I was and how much I was a piece of trash for doing it. But at least I took responsibility for what I did have the balls to admit it to yourself instead of asking for forgiveness on an internet forum.

I can tell this forum is full of desperate spineless chodes too because most here condone it LOLLOL Glad I don't have any of you for friends srs.
 
I find it pathetic when a guy has a crash on a girl and suddenly thinks that he owns her. Both damn grown *** people, she chose, you didn't mind. What is the problem. I say your mate is damn egomaniac if he thinks you done wrong. He got rejected. End off. You didn't kill off his chances, he didnt have any chance.
 
Woman get's into guys bed when drunk and starts get guy aroused. Not his fault. Guy is single.

Hormones take over and and the thought process goes out the window.

Question is.. if you had been sober and she had just come into your room, and she said she wasn't into the other guy... would you have still got jiggy? Would YOU like to be in a relationship with her? If so.. then think of your own interests as well.

The other guy can't make her interested at present.. he needs to change tac.

Bro code? Hmm.. tough one. Possibly. Depends how good friends you are.

Not seen a "Worst 'I just got laid' thread ever" quote from anyone yet lol.
 
It was fair game if you ask me, his mate sounds a bit creepy anyways, playing friends with her for years on end in the desperate attempt that one day he'll get a pitty shag off her, then throwing a tantrum like a child when she wouldn't let him hump her, like the OP said, that's no way to have a friendship with someone.

Also he tried his move far too late in the game, and got rightly denied by her. He should have tried soon after meeting her, not years later when he's firmly set in the friend zone. Little bit dodgy her jumping straight into bed with the OP, but cue that down to a few factors; drunk, already been flirting all night etc.

Like has been said, it's not as if he owned her, he knew the score long before anyone else, she wasn't ever interested in playing hide the sausage with him, so I don't see why that gives him the right to label her off limits to anyone he know's, or how throwing a tantrum and trying to end the friendship because she didn't want him in that way is justified.
 
well done

But to the point. No don't feel bad, just let him know that you didn't intentionally do it, you were both drunk and whatever happened happened. The question is are you going to see her again ?
 
If he was well and truly in the 'friend-zone' and knew she was a bit promiscuous then he should have seen something like this coming eventually whether it was with you or some other guy he considered a friend it doesn't matter.

Nevertheless, the fact you've known he's been into her for years doesn't look good on you dude. But then we're not all angels, especially not when we're horny and drunk so don't be too down beat about it. Remember the glass is half full and he'll eventually see sense that it was never going to be with her.
 
Thanks for all the input guys, was really helpful. :)

For anyone interested I'll conclude.


When I saw him yesterday he actually apologised to me.


Apparently this girl has done this to him before, she leads him on, then sleeps with someone close to him.

He was obviously a bit upset by it all but we man-hugged, I apologised, and we should be good now.

Don't think either of us will be seeing that girl any time soon tho, which is a shame as they seemed to have a good friendship...

But then I suppose is one side of a friendship wants a relationship, and the other doesn't, it wont ever work :/

But at least we are still bros :D Thanks for all the good advice.

And yeah....

'worst "I just had sex" thread ever' :D
 
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