lol, pathetic....
Bullying - Who's in the wrong here?
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lol, pathetic....
Well to be fair, you are making absolutely no sense and talking rubbish.
He's a kid, not some Judo black belt, ex-military guy who knows to only use appropriate force to deal with people in that situation.
He got tormented, and eventually snapped. He then walked away. If you think that's an anger problem then I don't know what else to say.
I was bullied once and I snapped, took a teacher to get me off him, you live and you learn.
Soldato
absolutely!
jesus it certainly was when i did it. Like i said i learned my lesson quickly. I remember walking to class after, as if nothing happened. It was like a wave of calm and kind of fuzzy numb feeling. I dont remember a lot between then and the moment another teacher stormed in to the class room and dragged me out. I was suspended for that, for a week. I felt i absolutely deserved that. I shouldnt have snapped.
what are you, 5 ?
robboftw said:
what part of "i was in those shoes, i did the same thing, i walked away as he did" dont you get? at least i the brains to work out why i did it and how to avoid it in the future.
yep, the two responses are quite similar. Although i walked away from my situation, I still had that moment of complete rage. I remember more of the moments shortly after the incident than i do during it. I hated the way i reacted, hated it.
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Associate
Due to the utter tosh thats currently coming out of your mouth, I wish you hadn't snapped and kept getting bullied too.
Soldato
I dont think you can really relate to this at all.
I think you just beat someone up for calling you a name once, a total one off, that means you have an anger problem.
Being bullied for a long period of time and then using appropriate force (kids often 'grab' each other) to nullify the threat is not even close to an anger problem. Not one bit.
Associate
So because you have an anger problem, anyone that snaps automatically has anger issues also. Yes, obviously there cant have been any contrasting facts at all between the two of yours bullying episodes that could cause you two snap for two different reasons. Im glad you sussed you had anger issues...However, my opinion, and that which seems to be shared by most others...the kid in that videos does not have anger issues.
Soldato
go you.
i was bullied for weeks. that makes your argument invalid.
Considering everything you've said, I think you're lying.
Either that, or you are too simple to understand that two different situations involving different people, could be, well, different?
Soldato
had, there's a distinction there that needs to be made.
funny how some are you are calling my argument rubbish when i had more in common with that kid than any of you. you must all be behavioral experts
I have nothing to gain by admitting being bullied. but yey another personal insult, you lot or on a roll. Insulting my intelligence....lol.
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Associate
Weeks....oh jeez, had I have realised it was WEEKS!!
Get real, as in...seriously....get real. Some people arent just bullied for weeks, they are bullied for YEARS. In all those years, they dont go smashing kids heads into walls, they just take it all in. After years, they sometimes react. This does not, and never will equate to an anger problem.
Soldato
you've based your opinion on that one video though - you have no idea whether that kid was bullied previously or not.
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Watching that video, the skinny kid deserved everything he got, and I chuckled as he hobbled away.
Somewhat off-topic, I've only ever been bullied once and it was by a really tall fat kid who was 2 years above me when I was about 13. He didn't realise that I was mates with the hardest kids in the school who were a year above me and a year below him. Once they found out, the fat kids friends tried to persuade me they didn't like him (for fear of themselves getting battered), and the hard kids in the year above did eventually batter him for me lol. Once they did that, he practically cowered every time I walked past him - which made a nice change from him throwing punches at me. Bullies deserve everything they get tbh.
Somewhat off-topic, I've only ever been bullied once and it was by a really tall fat kid who was 2 years above me when I was about 13. He didn't realise that I was mates with the hardest kids in the school who were a year above me and a year below him. Once they found out, the fat kids friends tried to persuade me they didn't like him (for fear of themselves getting battered), and the hard kids in the year above did eventually batter him for me lol. Once they did that, he practically cowered every time I walked past him - which made a nice change from him throwing punches at me. Bullies deserve everything they get tbh.
Associate
funny how some are you are calling my argument rubbish when i had more in common with that kid than any of you. you must all be behavioral experts
This would instigate that you either one, have some prior knowledge to my school history, and whether or not I was bullied, or even whether I could have possibly been in an exact same situation as you are saying you were in. Or two, I have previously mentioned in this thread something to indicate I have or havent been in a situation to have more in common than you.
Seeing as both points havent happened and you have no idea who I am or anything about the school I attended, you are therefore once again...talking utter tosh, and you sir, are still a fool.
Associate
What is all this fuss about? Kid get's bullied, gets angry (as you would), get's pushed to snapping point (almost nobody would stand and take several punches) then he snaps. What is the big deal? The bully got what he deserved. it's not like the chubby kid then proceeds to jump on his face is it.
And like I said before, whether the kid is bullied or not is irrelevant. As all we have to go on is that video. And the video shows a scenario where the use of reasonable force to eliminate a threat to your person is completely justified. It also shows that the force was not excessive as the kid makes his move and then walks off. Excessive force (and anger issues) would have meant that after making his point the fat kid had continued his assault on the smaller kid.
Man of Honour
Using a potentially fatal way to stop an attack (he might have broken the other person's neck) is a bit of a grey area in terms of reasonable force, but I would judge it reasonable under the circumstances. A pack of animals attacked him and he dealt with it by overtly overpowering and injuring the pack leader, cowing the rest of the pack. Harsh, but they imposed the situation on him.
I have a question for those people who don't see it as an issue at all:
If the angles had been slightly different and he broke the other person's neck, killing him, would you think any differently about his actions? That could have happened.
I have a question for those people who don't see it as an issue at all:
If the angles had been slightly different and he broke the other person's neck, killing him, would you think any differently about his actions? That could have happened.