Finally beths main brain scan results

Your making me feel like I have to take it now or im going to offend people that want to help out ,

Im still in the frame of mind that as much as it would be apprciated and needed to pay the scan if feesable and the mortgage to take time off after which I could skip a couple of payments and pay it back if and when I can it just feels like begging to me :confused:
 
Skywalker said:
Your making me feel like I have to take it now or im going to offend people that want to help out ,
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Skywalker - a good friend of mine lost his 8 year old daughter through a brain tumour which should really have been dealt with quicker (no guarantee that this would have resulted in a different outcome but your situation chimes with me).

Just get on the phone so we can get the ball rolling, and hopefully accellerate the whole process :p
 
Skywalker said:
Your making me feel like I have to take it now or im going to offend people that want to help out ,

Im still in the frame of mind that as much as it would be apprciated and needed to pay the scan if feesable and the mortgage to take time off after which I could skip a couple of payments and pay it back if and when I can it just feels like begging to me :confused:
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There would be no offence taken if you do not want to accept the help, I'm sure that just knowing there are people, who are nothing more than words on a screen, wanting to help you will give you a little more strength, which can only be a good thing :]
 
I agree with the majority here. I have a couple of kids myself and had a bit of a scare with one of them a few years back. Not saying I understand how bad it must be for you, but I can empathise with some of the feelings you must be having right now.

Seriously, you sound like a proud man, and there's nothing at all wrong with that, but right now you should put it to one side and let people help you. It sounds as if you've got a hell of a lot on your plate right now, so if people here are prepared to help to relieve just a bit of the pressure then let them. I certainly know that most people despair at where there taxes go, so to be able to redirect a bit of cash at a genuinely good cause can only be a good thing for all concerned.
 
Skywalker said:
Your making me feel like I have to take it now or im going to offend people that want to help out ,

Im still in the frame of mind that as much as it would be apprciated and needed to pay the scan if feesable and the mortgage to take time off after which I could skip a couple of payments and pay it back if and when I can it just feels like begging to me :confused:
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Don't feel bad if you don't want to accept, it's an offer made in good faith, not a demand to accept it. However, don't feel that you should turn it down because it feels like begging, it most certainly wasn't. You never mentioned any of this, you've never once even hinted at it, this is a genuine offer from the community here to help if it will help your family.
 
Sagalout said:
I agree with the majority here. I have a couple of kids myself and had a bit of a scare with one of them a few years back. Not saying I understand how bad it must be for you, but I can empathise with some of the feelings you must be having right now.

Seriously, you sound like a proud man, and there's nothing at all wrong with that, but right now you should put it to one side and let people help you. It sounds as if you've got a hell of a lot on your plate right now, so if people here are prepared to help to relieve just a bit of the pressure then let them. I certainly know that most people despair at where there taxes go, so to be able to redirect a bit of cash at a genuinely good cause can only be a good thing for all concerned.
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Dolph said:
Don't feel bad if you don't want to accept, it's an offer made in good faith, not a demand to accept it. However, don't feel that you should turn it down because it feels like begging, it most certainly wasn't. You never mentioned any of this, you've never once even hinted at it, this is a genuine offer from the community here to help if it will help your family.
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I think you have both hit it on the head and yes I like to think of myself as a very proud man and as you say it needs to be put aside for now as its not for me it is for my family

If people wouldnt mind helping me at this time even if it is just alittle something so I take time off to look after her after the operation then that I would like to thank everyone that could help me and my family from the bottom of my heart

I actually have tears running down my face of happiness at the group of people that are actually offering to help at this time and again I would like to say thanks as it shows there is some good in the world where I have seen nothing lately as I cant understand why this is hapening to my little princess
 
Great..... let's get this going then. Who is coordinating/running the Paypal account?

Should be a Don IMO - Also, some contact has to be established between them and Skywalker to ensure the money doesn't end up with George Akbktkwengo by mistake :P
 
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Awesome decision mate. Let me knowhow its going to work and i'll dig up the bottle of 2ps :) Although you'd break your back trying to carry them lol. In all seriousness though let us know how its all going to happen and i'll get the money over asap.
 
Skywalker.

I am glad you have allowed us the opportunity to assist in any way we can, and I hope you don't think that by accepting our offers of assistance it will make you any less of a proud father.

I'm a father of a little girl a little bit younger than Bethany and if anything was to happen to her I am sure I would be in the same position as you, and not wanting to accept help because as a father and a husband you feel it is your responsibility to provide for your family.

However, it goes to show that this forum is more than just a community of posters, and with people you have never even met offering to support you goes to show how many hearts Bethany has touched.

All we need now is a Don to create a holding fund so that we can get things rolling.
 
My mother was just made redundant and the wifes side of the family has just had to shell out for her brothers funeral - They are always the first ones to offer to look after brandon etc when needed which is fantastic in its self as no one likes to look after him as hes a little bit of a handful to say the least

My mum had him Tuesday when Beth had the dermitologist (she also needs lazer surgury on her face but completly forgot about this one till just now) and accidently gave him fizzy cola bottles and when we got back he was buzzing to say the least :eek: Brandon is the one that gives us a lot of smiles at times like this though as hes a charector on his own :D

It doesnt rain but it pours as you can see at times
 
Blue Cypher said:
Ive torn part of my cruciate in my left knee in october and i am still waiting for an MRI.
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I suppose it depends where you are, as I would imagine the more hospitals there are the more machines are available and the faster you'd get it done.

When they suspected I had torn my ACL they stated 2 months to see a consultant then 3 months for an MRI. Luckily I discovered I was still covered under my dads BUPA coverage.
 
knip said:
*Bumpetty bump bump*

Anyone sorted anything out yet?
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If no one is going to do anything, perhaps he should post an email address where we can contact him to get PP details to send to? Skywalker - did you phone up and find how much a scan would be?

(is impatient) :p
 
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