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I got offered a job on Friday for £5K more than I'm on now after only interviewing the day before. I'm sitting here at working waiting for my boss to call me to a meeting to discuss the possibilities of continuing employment with my current employer. We had a long informal chat yesterday afternoon after I told him and I was giving him every good reason under the sun for me to leave, but he was also being subtly manipulative and saying we should look into the new company together etc etc because it might not be that good.
I was reading a lot about this kind of stuff last night...counter offers, line managers making excuses, coming up with reasons to make you stay. My head and gut tell me to just listen to what they have to say and then politely decline any offer they make, but I've become super attached to this place (the people make it a lot better than it should be) and my heart is irrationally telling me to accept a counter offer if made.
I know everyone will likely say don't accept the counter offer, and I also know that many of my reasons for wanting to leave won't magically disappear. I guess I'm just spewing my thoughts.
I was reading a lot about this kind of stuff last night...counter offers, line managers making excuses, coming up with reasons to make you stay. My head and gut tell me to just listen to what they have to say and then politely decline any offer they make, but I've become super attached to this place (the people make it a lot better than it should be) and my heart is irrationally telling me to accept a counter offer if made.
I know everyone will likely say don't accept the counter offer, and I also know that many of my reasons for wanting to leave won't magically disappear. I guess I'm just spewing my thoughts.