I've been playing games since I owned a BBC computer that had cassette tapes as games, I understand what graphics vrs game play is.
What's the harm in playing a great game gameplay wise with all bells and whistles turned on at 4k on a large screen. That's where the end game is for me.
I know a lot of games that come out need more powerful GPUs that we have available now and that's why I always play games 2-3 years after they come out.
For example, AC Odyssey came out in 2018. I'm still waiting to upgrade my 1080ti so that I can play it at 4k maxed out and I dont want to comprise.
The 4000 series is where it's at for me