I've tapped in to this thread a couple of times, so I remember what the OP was moaning about before he edited his original post and removed all context about his oppression under the mods.
I joined this forum in late 2018. This place is a paradise as far as I can tell. I'm still a member of a forum or two from the early 2000s and witnessed their decline in to anarchy in the name of a culture of 'good fights' or similar sentiments. These were either encouraged by mods with their active participation or extremely harshly shutdown with arbitrary banning while on a power trip.
Compared with other forums I've been on, I would have to complain (/s) that OCUK GD posters lack the true will to dismember their fellow poster; to crush not only their opinion but every aspect of their life, to relentlessly stalk and ridicule their target, to inspire strangers to steam in with expletive filled vernacular about the soundness of the target's mind, lifestyle choices, moral compass and life decisions, and to attack relentlessly any kink in their armour that's exposed, revelling if they react and expose more kinks in their armour to the delight of all.
Fortunately this place is quite nice actually, though a few feel they get stroppy rights for being the first poster or two in a thread. Generally discussion takes off and the good people with something to say quickly outweigh the bad here in my opinion, and humour and wit still exists just fine.