Girlfriend mad at me.

It sounds like there’s wider issues at play than just this instance?

Its not normal to call your other half a liar, it’s also not normal for your other half to take such issues with your mum.

Have a mega pint of red wine and let it blow over.
 
VincentHanna said:
My mum lives 25 minutes away, I haven't seen her for about 4 weeks...

Spending too much time with your mum sounds particularly insensitive on your part if your girlfriends mum only passed away a few years back.
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There was nobody who spent as much time with her mum as I did 6 days a week shopping all going on holiday together ect ect
 
At face value, and looking at this on its own....she needs to get a grip. Children are going to get minor injuries unless you keep them in a padded bubble and never let them leave the house. Her knowing about it a bit sooner would have made no difference to anything.

Though it is possible this disproportionate response is due to much wider and long standing grievances.

So in summary, i wouldn't take any of our advice.
 
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I think you meant to post this on Mumsnet, my take on this would be "Calm down, as the nursery has said it was a minor facial accident and nothing too serious, if you want to fly off the handle regarding this there's the door and come back when we can sit and talk about it like adults"

I lost my mum last year and I've never once held my missus accountable when she goes to visit her parents, I actually encourage it because I would give anything to pop round to my mothers and sit and have a cuppa, having said that I'm capable of being a grown up and not some jumped up entitled little so and so where I'm owed everything from the world.

My advice is to nip it in the bud now otherwise things will definitely escalate by letting her get away with this behaviour as it's not normal, also point out her shouting and screaming is the one upsetting your daughter not you.
 
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