Girlfriend mad at me.

I highlighted some quotes of yours that seem to contradict each other.


I think deep down she doesn’t like my mum having a relationship with her daughter as her mum sadly passed away 2 years ago.

Only shopping she usually says aren’t you off to see your mum, my mum likes to see her granddaughter.

Is this one of those sentences were women say one thing but actually mean the opposite? Because considering what you said about what you think she thinks, I wonder if you are ignoring some cues she’s been giving out.

Yes I spend a lot of time with my mum always with my girlfriend there ! We all go shopping together at the weekend.

No im not a massive mummy’s boy be we reley on my mum to pick her up from nursery Wednesday to Friday.

Also you do seem to spend a massive amount of time with your mum. If I’m understanding your post correctly you spend nearly half of every week with your mum being in some part of your families life.

When was the last time you only went shopping with your baby and your girlfriend?

When she calms down you need to talk to your girlfriend and check that she hasn’t been hinting at some issues for a while that you have completely ignored.
 
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Ugh, what a horrible situation.

To me, it sounds like this is a "last straw" thing for your girlfriend. It is worth looking back to see what has been bubbling in the background- and be honest about that.

If you want to save the relationship, you're going to have to eat humble pie. "I'll make sure my mum tells you if anything like this happens again" etc. It'll mean listening to her side and taking her seriously- don't dismiss her remarks, as she is clearly unhappy.

It's sensible to start thinking seriously about what happens if the relationship is over. You might want legal advice on property, child access etc.

Good luck!
 
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