How To Get Hubby To Pay His Way

Diddums said:
Stop being so naive. The dude's a manipulative idiot, get rid.
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Well, it's not my job to do that. He's my sisters hubby not mine! I am just describing from another guys perspective. From what my sis says, I agree that there is something very wrong. Personally I think he is just doing what he wants because she is failing to make/force a case against his poor logic. I think he is just behaving like that becuase she has allowed him too. Not her fault, I might add, but there are times that people need to be told when they are wrong and they need to listen. Neither of those things are really happening here.
 
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SpellowHouse said:
Well, it's not my job to do that. He's my sisters hubby not mine! I am just describing from another guys perspective. From what my sis says, I agree that there is something very wrong. Personally I think he is just doing what he wants because she is failing to make/force a case against his poor logic.
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It's too late to make a case, the damage is done. This kind of thing will never be truly resolved, so again, tell her to get rid.

SpellowHouse said:
My sisters hubby. What's wrong with that?
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This is you, isn't it?

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SpellowHouse said:
Well, it's not my job to do that. He's my sisters hubby not mine! I am just describing from another guys perspective. From what my sis says, I agree that there is something very wrong. Personally I think he is just doing what he wants because she is failing to make/force a case against his poor logic. I think he is just behaving like that becuase she has allowed him too. Not her fault, I might add, but there are times that people need to be told when they are wrong and they need to listen. Neither of those things are really happening here.
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By default, that makes him a garbage person though.

Honestly, I cannot see a single good reason for withholding financial information like this from your wife, and not contributing a penny towards your household if you are working full time. The whole situation is absurd.
 
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SpellowHouse said:
Sorry, I am missing your point here. I don't get why it is wrong to call my sisters husband her "hubby".
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Hubby is used by women who gossip about their husbands over a glass of prosecco whilst doing their nails with Love Actually on the telly whilst on a sleepover.

There also tends to be a "live, laugh, love" painting on the wall.

Not by blokes who refer to someone else's husband.
 
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SpellowHouse said:
I think he is just behaving like that becuase she has allowed him too.
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No. It's mostly because he's a ****.

No decent person would allow their partner to pay the bills if both were able to work. Yes, she has some shared responsibility for allowing him to get away with it, but ultimately he's the one responsible for not contributing.
 
Jono8 said:
By default, that makes him a garbage person though.

Honestly, I cannot see a single good reason for withholding financial information like this from your wife, and not contributing a penny towards your household if you are working full time. The whole situation is absurd.
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No, this is it, I can't see any reason either.
She recently suggested that they create a joint account for jobs around the house (decorating, new furniture, whatever). They could both access the account and both pay in as they could. He flatly refused, without giving any reason at all.
 
Diddums said:
Hubby is used by women who gossip about their husbands over a glass of prosecco whilst doing their nails with Love Actually on the telly whilst on a sleepover.

There also tends to be a "live, laugh, love" painting on the wall.

Not by blokes who refer to someone else's husband.
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Well, I'll just keep on discussing the topic while you concentrate on your dictionary!:cry:

It must be regional because I certainly know of plenty of men who refer to a woman's husband as "hubby".
 
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