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Geekazoid..

Come to france for the winter and I'll teach you how to snowboard (if you don't know already) and blow away 5 months in the mountains!! Got a huge flat you can have the spare bed. Decent internet connection even in the highest town in europe.

the snow is already falling and the top of the mountains are under deep powder snow. life as a ski bum is filled with amazing days in some outstanding scenery, party filled evenings with many live bands, loads of sport to fill the body with endorphins, a fair bit of drinking and chalet girls!!

think about it, you are never too old to do a season. Taught a 64 year old grandma to board last year!
 
logicfry said:
Geekazoid..

Come to france for the winter and I'll teach you how to snowboard (if you don't know already) and blow away 5 months in the mountains!! Got a huge flat you can have the spare bed. Decent internet connection even in the highest town in europe.

the snow is already falling and the top of the mountains are under deep powder snow. life as a ski bum is filled with amazing days in some outstanding scenery, party filled evenings with many live bands, loads of sport to fill the body with endorphins, a fair bit of drinking and chalet girls!!

think about it, you are never too old to do a season. Taught a 64 year old grandma to board last year!
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Don't mean to barge in, but can I come?
 
logicfry said:
Geekazoid..

Come to france for the winter and I'll teach you how to snowboard (if you don't know already) and blow away 5 months in the mountains!! Got a huge flat you can have the spare bed. Decent internet connection even in the highest town in europe.

the snow is already falling and the top of the mountains are under deep powder snow. life as a ski bum is filled with amazing days in some outstanding scenery, party filled evenings with many live bands, loads of sport to fill the body with endorphins, a fair bit of drinking and chalet girls!!

think about it, you are never too old to do a season. Taught a 64 year old grandma to board last year!
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I too have also been dumped and if she says I haven't dumped her then I will.
So can I come?
 
I just had a bad breakup with my girlfriend of 9 years and she did it over the phone. She started hooking up with her ex and I found out, but couldn't dump her.

Its been 3 months now and only really exchanged a few texts right after the break.

Man I'm still in shock.

I feel your pain OP.
 
logicfry said:
Geekazoid..

Come to france for the winter and I'll teach you how to snowboard (if you don't know already) and blow away 5 months in the mountains!! Got a huge flat you can have the spare bed. Decent internet connection even in the highest town in europe.

the snow is already falling and the top of the mountains are under deep powder snow. life as a ski bum is filled with amazing days in some outstanding scenery, party filled evenings with many live bands, loads of sport to fill the body with endorphins, a fair bit of drinking and chalet girls!!

think about it, you are never too old to do a season. Taught a 64 year old grandma to board last year!
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Hijack, but what part of France is this? Please say Chamonix.
 
I am sorry to hear that. but Hey, its not the end of your life!

Same thing happened to me about 5 years ago, at the time she was my life as we shared a home, future plans and everything and I felt lost and alone when it all ended.

Well, fast forward to now and I can't be happier! I can now look back and see that things were not right and since then I have worked around the world, nearly completed a new degree, had a few different girlfriends come and go, go fitter and happier with myself.

Remember, there are about 4 billion women in the world, and I'd imagine there are at least a million or so women that are eligible that you would find a suitable mate, so get out there and enjoy finding one!

Until you get there though, just work on making yourself happy.. new hobbies, improve your career, go to the gym etc.

lifes good!
 
logicfry said:
Geekazoid..

Come to france for the winter and I'll teach you how to snowboard (if you don't know already) and blow away 5 months in the mountains!! Got a huge flat you can have the spare bed. Decent internet connection even in the highest town in europe.

the snow is already falling and the top of the mountains are under deep powder snow. life as a ski bum is filled with amazing days in some outstanding scenery, party filled evenings with many live bands, loads of sport to fill the body with endorphins, a fair bit of drinking and chalet girls!!

think about it, you are never too old to do a season. Taught a 64 year old grandma to board last year!
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Can i come? :p

I can bring a collection of very attractive and very appreciative hookers :D
 
Flipt said:
I have had a few long term relationships fail in my time and ALL down to the other partner and not me. I gave them everything and treated them like they should be. It wasn't until recently that I realised that it was me and not them! Because I was treating them like a princess, there was no challenge there anymore, no excitement, and nothing for them to aspire to. They had me wrapped round thier little finger, and ultimately they had control and didn't need to put effort in to keep me. Women won't admit this freely, but they need someone to take control, be a leader and put thier foot down when need be. They need to feel like they have a chase to keep you, and you need to keep the excitement going for them to want you. Bad boy types are the players and they ones who keep them chasing, but the nice guys are the ones that don't offer that excitement. It's about finding that right balance without being a douche or being a walk over.
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Quoting this from a few pages back because "Flipt" here is absolutely spot on the money with this post and it has actually helped me very much.

A genuine thanks from me Flipt :cool:
 
Flipt said:
I have had a few long term relationships fail in my time and ALL down to the other partner and not me. I gave them everything and treated them like they should be. It wasn't until recently that I realised that it was me and not them! Because I was treating them like a princess, there was no challenge there anymore, no excitement, and nothing for them to aspire to. They had me wrapped round thier little finger, and ultimately they had control and didn't need to put effort in to keep me. Women won't admit this freely, but they need someone to take control, be a leader and put thier foot down when need be. They need to feel like they have a chase to keep you, and you need to keep the excitement going for them to want you. Bad boy types are the players and they ones who keep them chasing, but the nice guys are the ones that don't offer that excitement. It's about finding that right balance without being a douche or being a walk over.

Good luck
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No the best advice IMO is not to fall in love with someone 100%.

always hold back so that when it goes peer shape, you wont feel too sad and distraught.

bad guys end up finishing last in the long run. alone, no family or kids with partners they are no longer with, lots of regrets etc.
 
jonneymendoza said:
No the best advice IMO is not to fall in love with someone 100%.

always hold back so that when it goes peer shape, you wont feel too sad and distraught.

bad guys end up finishing last in the long run. alone, no family or kids with partners they are no longer with, lots of regrets etc.
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This is terrible advice. Love is a life experience and everyone needs to put their all in to get the best out of it. You can't go through life holding back just in case you get hurt. That's such a poor attitude to have. Getting hurt is part of the experience, you get hurt, you learn to pick yourself back up and are ultimately better for it in the longterm.
 
CHokKA said:
This is terrible advice. Love is a life experience and everyone needs to put their all in to get the best out of it. You can't go through life holding back just in case you get hurt. That's such a poor attitude to have. Getting hurt is part of the experience, you get hurt, you learn to pick yourself back up and are ultimately better for it in the longterm.
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u can still get the best out of love by not giving your all.
 
rossk26 said:
How?

How can you be with someone, if you aren't fully committed to that person, and hold back in case they leave you? Just sounds like a relationship that's destined to end IMO.
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Fully commited vs fully in love is two different things.

You can be fully commited to someone or something but dont like the thing/someone you are commited to.

Like i said, dont give your full love to anyone.

Too many people get burned, distraught etc.

You give all your love and get burned.

Same for woman, they should and some already have proven in this thread that they dont give all there love as there easy to jump ship without feeling much.
 
how do ou choose not to love too much?

commitment you can change but love thats kinda out of your hands you cant make yourself love somone
 
I've been in a pretty bad breakup, I've gone out more since the breakup, seen more mates but a month on I'm struggling, I miss her even more now.

jonneymendoza said:
Fully commited vs fully in love is two different things.

You can be fully commited to someone or something but dont like the thing/someone you are commited to.

Like i said, dont give your full love to anyone.

Too many people get burned, distraught etc.

You give all your love and get burned.

Same for woman, they should and some already have proven in this thread that they dont give all there love as there easy to jump ship without feeling much.
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My last relationship the one I'm struggling with is the only relationship I've given all my love, all previous relationships I've been a bit like the Tin Man... I can see why I was always like Tin Man.
 
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