I'm disgusted

Nix said:
I'm not disputing you for a second Blackstar, I just want to make that point clear. But, some girls/women do seem to ask for it the way they dress. Showing 90% of their flesh on a night out is only asking for one thing and one type of character.
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I think it was my inner Rikki Lake speaking to be honest. I'm embarrassed by some girls when they go out but i still think that if a guy thinks because a girl is wearing a short skirt or lowcut top then he can do it then he's wrong in the head.
 
Vanilla said:
Sorry Freefaller but I think she was asking for it personally














FLAMEBAIT
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*breathes in* *breathes out* *breathes in* *breathes out*

nope you're not going to get me started ;)

As for dress sense, I have already stated she dresses quite conservatively certainly not provocatively, but this shouldn't be an excuse for people to grope people at any rate.

I'm just dissapointed with people who are so low that they need to get their kicks this way... Fortunately she's a tough cookie and this sort of thing won't prey on her mind too much. It's me being overly irritated and worried no doubt.
 
I'd be angry too if some guy did the same to my girlfriend.

Thing is, you have to report it. If you don't then the guy has got away with it and he'll do it again. After that he'll go a bit further next time and before long it could be full on rape.
 
Blackstar said:
I think it was my inner Rikki Lake speaking to be honest. I'm embarrassed by some girls when they go out but i still think that if a guy thinks because a girl is wearing a short skirt or lowcut top then he can do it then he's wrong in the head.
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I agree, and i'm not defending the men here but what other signals is dressing in such a manner suggesting? If a girl dresses in a manner to get attention and then complains when she has unwanted advances - I say they're just a hypocrite.

BUT, this still is no right for sexual assault.

Freefaller, I've been in clubs many times where i've seen some lad touch some lasses bum to have her turn around and slap him in the face. If it's a bloke in front of his mates, it is usually the embarassment factor that sends 'em packing. As for the street, I say stick with self-defense.
 
Its a sad state of affairs today. I'm not sure what to say, learning some self defence could be useful. But the problem is that often if it is used the situation escalates. I wouldn't put it past some blokes these days to slap a girl around if she used any sort of force.
 
I also found out that one o fmy mates was a rapist, i told the police and they
put him behindbars...

Goodridons.
 
Luke15 said:
I also found out that one o fmy mates was a rapist, i told the police and they
put him behindbars...

Good riddance.
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You mean to say - you informed the police that you suspected / had proof that your friend had raped / assaulted someone, the police arrested them, the case went to trial, and he was then incarcerated?
 
I was out with him one night, and we went to a club. I was going to order some drinks, and he went to the toilet. He left his wallet and phone with me. As i didnt have any money, i looked in his wallet for a £10 note. Then found some date rape drugs, with those weird symbols on.

I confronted him, and he told me to **** off. So i told the police what i found.

No swearing. Read the FAQs. Have a holiday on me.
 
Borris said:
Oops.

So, more accurately, you reporting him for possession of a controlled substance, for which he was arrested.

Not quite in the same league.
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Well he obviously didn't have the substance for his own personal consumption :p
 
Borris said:
Oops.

So, more accurately, you reporting him for possession of a controlled substance, for which he was arrested.

Not quite in the same league.
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Its better to prevent something rather then let it go ahead.

Well done luke15 :)
 
This is why my and the g/f always go out together!

However, had anyone done this to her then god help the stuff id do to them. Having a really bad temper and jealousy problems does come in handy sometimes! I once broke a lads nose just because he slapped her backside, i was a lot younger then and had nearly no control over my emotions! Im older and have much better control.

However, in your situation i would probably go to the builders yard with her and get her to point out the builder, take his picture and then go down to the police station and make a report of sexual assault against him.

As for the tramp, theres not a lot you can unless you go back to the same spot at the same time to see if he's there.
 
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benneh said:
When i got arrested the police officer recommended carrying a jiff lemon bottle full of amonia. Though this is illegal too i think?.
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Very illegal. It would come under a Prohibited Weapon under Section 5 of the Firearms Act and a cop to issue that advice is not good, despite good intentions.
 
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