Thats eHarmony for you.
I tried the Meetic equivalent and thought it was a whole load of crapola.
Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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Thats eHarmony for you.
I tried the Meetic equivalent and thought it was a whole load of crapola.
Well, after spending almost 30 mins answering questions honestly at eharmony:
That's my first saunter into online dating over with.
I love the way they go to great efforts to assure you that you are not the only one LOL.
Obviously to stop people turning psychotic/depressed xD
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It didn't work - I'm sat eating my third tub of ben and jerry's and downing the rest of my litre of vodka. Or back in reality, I realised that a site like that is innately flawed.
Haha it's not nice when you get constantly low ratings on pictures either.
It did change putting a different on one, shows how much a bad photo can do for you.
Given up on it all now though, just going to let whoever wants, message me and carry on with my life as normal.
Well, after spending almost 30 mins answering questions honestly at eharmony:
That's my first saunter into online dating over with.
yeah i left it gave it a day found a chick over in Scotland... then had the option to pay to see / talk to her the questionnaire itself was dire I didn't feel as though the questions were valid and dint bother with most.... so I just gave up and cancelled my account... there was no guarantee she had paid either so she may of not been able to talk to me (if you talk to some one you can talk back even if they haven't paid if i remember) so it was a pure gamble or not if i even found her attractive etc
This is something i've found with PoF. It seems the girls i meet are just there for 1 thing and its not a loving relationship
. I had almost given up but got a msg from a new girl and been chatting etc for a while and meeting up on Saturday for a real date, no where near a bedroom which will make a huge change. If you want a quick shag then PoF is like a barrel of fish. Trying to find something real and lasting seems more difficult.
When i was <25 then certainly that was always the case 
But since i'm 29 i just want a peaceful life in the company of someone i love to share my time and space with. Tbh theres 1 thing in having unadulterated sex with someone compared to having a loving and caring relationship!
I sound like a girl nowadays; 1st it was the safe car and now its the settled relationship.
But since i'm 29 i just want a peaceful life in the company of someone i love to share my time and space with. Tbh theres 1 thing in having unadulterated sex with someone compared to having a loving and caring relationship!
I sound like a girl nowadays; 1st it was the safe car and now its the settled relationship.
POF seems to be full of nutters, they expect you to drive 100 miles or so to theirs and back on every date...fine, but then when they decide they are coming to yours they want you to drive 100 miles or so to theirs and back and then take them home after.......why is it always give give give ?
Then they shag you and you never hear from them again, the last girl i "dated" i didnt sleep with untill the 3rd date, really liked her, slept with her and didnt hear from her again, checked her facebook on another account and shes engaged.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I give up.
Then they shag you and you never hear from them again, the last girl i "dated" i didnt sleep with untill the 3rd date, really liked her, slept with her and didnt hear from her again, checked her facebook on another account and shes engaged.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I give up.
Yes thats PoF for me too though i'd never drive 100miles, maybe 75 
Its like a complete role reversal, a chance for women to act like guys and shag around except we are the idiots now that facilitate their demands Last 1 i'm sure had a bf as its always on wednesdays that she gets in the mood. Knocked that on the head after 2 times.
I call for a return to 20th century values; men shag around and women get caught in the emotional afterburner of men's desires!
Its like a complete role reversal, a chance for women to act like guys and shag around except we are the idiots now that facilitate their demands Last 1 i'm sure had a bf as its always on wednesdays that she gets in the mood. Knocked that on the head after 2 times.I call for a return to 20th century values; men shag around and women get caught in the emotional afterburner of men's desires!
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Where are they hiding?
I've had a 70/30 ratio of good/bad dates.
Most women have been nice, just not what I'm looking for.
They all do seem to have emotional baggage though.
so fellas, how do you politely say to someone who has been emailing on and off for must be nearly a month now maybe longer that you're not interested because you're interested in someone else?
I feel quite bad about it really.
I feel quite bad about it really.
You tell the truth, just say youve met someone who you feel a stronger connection with, that you are being honest because you cant see things going any further with the person you are emailing due to wanting to explore things with the other person.
Tell them the truth...cant see why you would feel bad about it...it could have easily happened to you if the roles were reversed but seriously just be honest with the guy...he might not take it well but at least you have been honest and thats what counts the most...well for me it does.
To: Wierdo
From: Secretspy
CC: OCUK
Subject: Re: Do one
Dearest Wierdo,
I'm really not all that into you. Please refrain from contacting me again or I will go to the Police.
All the best,
Secretspy
Something like that?
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