Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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paradisiac said:
i messaged a few people, but no replies. they havent even looked at my profile
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A few?? Why did you stop!!

Keep at it man but don't fail with copy and paste messages. Try different tactics, be funny, be obtuse, be straight, be cheeky, be ****ty, try all sorts.
Hone your skills into what gives the most desired results.
Practice your writing, if they don't reply, who cares. Up your game. :D
 
Being autistic and going online dating is INSAnITY! :(, It's like every time I think about sending a message it turns into an Exam test lol
 
Think of it as a forum full of geeks then but instead of talking about PC's, talk about the **** they are interested in the same way you do here. :D

Play it to your advantage and act a bit of a bell end.. then joke about it.
 
I have taken the step of removing/closing my Match, eHarmony, PoF and OkCupid accounts, as I wasn't having any success in the last 3-4 months I've been on them. Not even a message from anyone.

I don't have the time anymore to go through dating web sites, sending messages to girls that don't get replies and I just don't think it's the best way forward for me.

I get the impression that I'm going to have better luck in real life.

:(

Kind regards,

David
 
Gamefreak501 said:
I have taken the step of removing/closing my Match, eHarmony, PoF and OkCupid accounts, as I wasn't having any success in the last 3-4 months I've been on them. Not even a message from anyone.

I don't have the time anymore to go through dating web sites, sending messages to girls that don't get replies and I just don't think it's the best way forward for me.

I get the impression that I'm going to have better luck in real life.

:(

Kind regards,

David
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big hugs
 
Why do you consider you have to do one or the other...
You can do BOTH at the same time.
My profile was up there for months, I didn't even bother logging in for a long time.
So what if no one messages you. They sure as hell can'tmessage you at all if you delete it.
 
Fuzz said:
So what if no one messages you. They sure as hell can'tmessage you at all if you delete it.
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Exactly, maybe just bin the ones you're paying for. I was on Match for a few months but had far more luck on POF, now got a very nice lady on my arm :)

Change your pics though to mix things up. You can write the funniest, best message a girl's ever read but if she doesn't like the look of you then you're not gonna get very far I'm afraid.
 
Definately take lots of pictures and choose the ones that show your 'good side'
You have to send lots of messages, I mean lots. You dont need buckets of replies as you arnt likely gonna date 2-3 at a time, I found that once you were chatting to 2 or more on MSN you just cant keep up.
Then when you have done all the chatting you have manouver the conversation round to meeting up ( but never suggest it outright ) it has to be her idea.
I have had no dates for weeks then suddenly I get a few. I dated all of them and chose to stick with the one that in the living room right now!
All in all I think it took 3-4 months to date 4 different girls. Then stupidly married one.
 
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